It sounds archaic, but it has been what worked for millennia. It is only in our abnormal modern society that people are conditioned not to care if the women is not a virgin or not, and slutiness is celebrated.

Male virginity is not as important. It never was. That's why polygamy was tolerated in traditional societies. Men were hardwired to produce as much offspring as possible, while women were programmed to dedicate herself to one man (but our sick society has reversed this). These are just biological facts. There is no equality in the cold reality that is nature.

The fact is, she will not bond with you properly if you were not her first and she already fucked half a dozen guys before you. I currently live in a foreign country, and I had to reject a girl I met on a dating site here because she decided to give herself to an American loser (the type I wanted to get away from) even after being warned by her church members not to be with this person (she was an ostensible "Christian" who had bible verses on her dating page). She was in the U.S. with him (after lying to her dad about what she was really doing there) while we first made contact, and she dumped him when she felt like she found someone who would be the best for her (me) and figured we would start a relationship quickly. Except things did not work out that way.

I decided to keep our relationship as friends and when she realized later on I was not going to give in and that she fucked up she contacted me crying saying that she "could have had the man of my dreams". Too late, I guess.

There are much better women out there, if you do choose a woman. But it is better to be safe than sorry. Set standards for yourself, and do not settle for anything less.