Hey guys, I was given a TON of old pictures from my pop this past weekend. I’m a really nostalgic person and had a really good upbringing, so I often think about my youth and stuff before my family dwindled down to basically 3 people and after my parents got divorced (which was for the better).
Anyway, while I was looking through the photos, I noticed something: everyone wore clothes that were reasonably dignified and not so obnoxious as they are nowadays. I’m talking like pictures in parks and stuff like that. Everyone looked — I don’t know how else to describe it — normal. This was like, maybe 20 years ago. No skin tight clothes, no facial pincushion piercings, and honestly everyone just looked so utterly normal there was nothing bad to really be said. Men were men, women were women, kids were kids.
The reason I bring it up is because I can’t believe how much stuff has changed over the years. I mean, to me anyway, you know? I suppose this isn’t really about women or anything, but the main point I’m trying to get at is that back 20 or so years ago people looked presentable and women looked not like poisonous monsters perpetually in heat. I assume nothing about their attitudes has changed back then, but at least they didn’t look like pure evil like they do now.
I guess it’s just my rose-tinted glasses getting the better of me, but people made life look mostly harmless back then. I know it sounds naive to say, but from a kid’s perspective, nobody looked like they were going to spit on you, and it didn’t look like people were so mistrusting, resentful, or closed off to others. It makes me wonder what happened.
Just wanted to share, since I don’t think anyone else would really find a correlation in the other subs.
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Can confirm shit was much better 20 years ago.
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3rd wave feminism started in the early 90s.
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My family/childhood photos go back quite a bit further -- the 60's.
I note we were actually probably a lot poorer than it felt at the time -- never really lacked for anything we needed mind you, just... well compared to [spoiled rotten?] kids these days we didn't have much -- a lot SIMPLER era; I suppose especially for us since we grew up in a rural countryside, so even the "hippie" freak stuff of the 60's didn't affect us much (more like some "weirdness" on TV -- relatively distant -- and more than slightly unreal or "surreal").
-- I actually think that last point was a BIG part of it... life moved slower -- or at least it certainly FELT that way -- and especially WITHOUT the whole 24x7 "sensationalist" news channels... well, I guess the world seemed "bigger"... shit that happened in big cities (especially ones in other states) was sooooo far away. Part of that of course is that it was the perspective of a child... but not ALL of it because frankly people DIDN'T travel as much; jet airplanes were for the "jet set" (rich people and/or high-powered business executives), the majority of the population had never been on a jet plane, and most probably never expected to, certainly not to the point that it would be taken for granted or to seem common/mundane. Especially not "frequent" flights overseas and such.
Oh, and to your point about "piercings" and stuff -- I can recall sometime in middle school (probably like 7th or 8th grade) there was some film or something in a "social studies" class, showing various tribal people with bone-piercings (through nose, ears, whatever) -- and everyone laughing at how ridiculous all of that looked. The teacher jokingly made a prediction: that by the time we were adults, such things would be "normal" -- and that BOYS as well as girls would be getting all kinds of stuff "pierced" just like the people the film -- we thought he was absolutely NUTS, I mean NO WAY would any GUY ever pierce his ears, much less his NOSE!
Epilogue to that: I ran into that exact teacher (long since retired) just a few years back and asked him how in the heck he knew; because his prediction was so spot on -- he said he didn't "know" and really wasn't trying to make a prediction; he THOUGHT he was pulling our legs, and just making an absurd statement to shock us, get us to laugh. (He was actually a decent teacher, everybody liked him, and he DID actually make you think about things... sometimes in quirky ways.)
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Can confirm. I remember when I was in high school about 10-15 years ago you didn't see revealing clothing like yoga pants worn in public. Hell, not even skin tight jeans were a thing back then. Now every basic bitch is wearing shit like that. Yoga pants with uncovered butt on full display, shirts either too tight or too loose with tits almost falling out, stockings that you would expect to only see on a lingerie model... All worn publicly with zero shame...
Not that I'm complaining really. All of this actually revealed to me that these hoes aren't marriage material anyway.
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