When I did French immersion in this tiny little college in the wilderness, (so no cold approach sets), I decided to not give a fuck. It had around 400 students, so think of it like a tiny high school social circle.
I spoke zero words of French, so I couldn't really "game", flirt, chat, story telling, or even use humor on girls if I wanted.
I literally asked out/made a move on any girl that was decent. I asked out the the girl working at the cafe, bartender. Sometimes I would just go for a girls hand with no context or pre-convo (though when no one else was looking). I even told my friend that if I become the weird creep on campus, or if everyone hated me it would be a sick life experience. In other words I did everything to become public enemy number 1.
And guess what? I hooked up with the hottest girl within a week, and later on had a girl pick me up, because she saw me hook the first girl.
Did I get a reputation as "weird" guy? no idea, and frankly I didn't care. I went in not giving a fuck if people hated me or thought I was weird, that mindset is what got girls to REACT, and got on their radar. I had a jail bait wanting to hook up (I refused). I remember some girl getting super pissed at me because I tried to kiss her friend without "building anything with her first" (I thought this girl liked me was just upset that I went for her friend).
Did girls go around telling each other that I just randomly grabbed her hand and one point? Honestly, I have no idea, but from my experience, girls don't really talk about that (at least when I do it). I was also super touchy with all the girls, like I would touch their hair when we are sitting in a circle in the daytime, and girls even told me to be less touchy, but guess what worked?
Keep in mind I had terrible social skills and very weak game at the time, plus the fact it was French immersion means I couldn't run any real game.
To this day, I have no idea why this worked, but fuck it was an intense experience. Learned a ton of French too.
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