Telling men the truth

2QuietDude · 2018-02-07T03:08:30+00:00

Exactly. I've accepted my non-chad status. I know I don't produce tingles so I focus on other things.

Roastedchickpeas · 2018-02-07T02:21:45+00:00

Because single mothers, because fathers and husbands, by definition, are simps. They couldn't have gotten where they were, because they were simping after women. So are they going to teach their sons not to chase pussy?

No offense to divorced guys, but you bought into a mythos back then.

Chasing pussy never works. That's not how you enjoy life.

faggatron0 · 2018-02-07T03:29:42+00:00

It was possible for an average dude to get decent poon until a few years ago. Before online dating and tinder. Now most are (un)fucked

Who's gonna tell these boys though? Their female teachers? Their cum chugging single mothers?

justshootinblanks · 2018-02-07T03:44:20+00:00

Parents want grand kids, and will throw their sons under the bus to get them. The alternative is to get nothing.

IAmTheDos · 2018-02-07T08:56:09+00:00

For the same reason every teenager gets told they have to go to university or they will be homeless losers. They are not informed of the risks, the stress, the shitload of work required, and the chance of coming out the other side with a useless degree, no job opportunities, and truckload of debt. That's assuming they even graduate. Meanwhile options like learning a trade, becoming an apprentice, or starting your own business are downplayed or ignored. Why?

Because the education industry requires constant supplies of fresh meat to avoid collapsing.

Its the same with the employment rat race as a whole. "If you work 60-80 hours a week for minimum wage without bonuses or raises or overtime or holidays, then you will surely become a millionaire!" Then they fire you for asking for a cost of living increase, and replace you with the next sucker.

Its the same with the military. Lose 80,000 men in a day? Just recruit and train 80,000 more. Say they are "un-patriotic" if they refuse to be forcefully "volunteered".

And its the same with marriage/women in general.

As a man, your success was never the goal of the system. The goal of the system is for men to sacrifice in order to benefit others.

SpecJoeMagic · 2018-02-07T05:21:28+00:00

Because the very idea of discouraging males from pursuing females is a radical concept that most people cannot fathom. We can see it due to being awakened to reality but most people do not challenge accepted societal conventions.

Just think about the numerous men you know who speak negatively of their wives in a manner that suggests that they have resigned themselves to their fate. It’s as though they think they have to go through with being married regardless of how much it frustrates them.

Now realize that this is the mindset of most people. They cannot even figure it out for themselves, much less have the ability to teach other men about the perils of relationships with women.

kirenex · 2018-02-07T06:05:25+00:00

As bad as some things are today.. Being a lower status male in this age isnt as bad if you think about it..i mean not only would you not be geting laid but you would be FORCED to fight and die in wars ,, or just be a literal slave.

Aquire resources, avoid women as much as possible, find meaning and purpose, help your fellow man and of course GYOW

Watchingcluturefade · 2018-02-07T08:12:07+00:00

I know people are tired of hearing "blame the media" (well maybe not here) but it really starts with that.

We begin to gather knowledge based on the events and stories that are told and shown to us. Back in the day, after working in the fields or wherever, they would sit around the campfire and tell old stories of battle or whatnot.

Now we are brought up with songs like "Beauty and the Beast" and "Alladin" where these men have the opporunity to have ANYTHING THEY WANT IN THE WORLD.

Yet they risk it all to save the damsel in distress.

Now the message has moved on to, the damsels don't need saving. From what I hear from the 24-28 crowd of girls I will take out, they HATE men their age. They think they are beta males and none of them know how to act like men.

It is fascinating to watch the causality effect of how the media molds our childhood and what we grow up to be.

My dad was a marine and a drill sargeant, you damn well better believe I grew up with "sum talkin tuh"

TheOnlyThing-Sufjan · 2018-02-07T10:26:29+00:00

That is ofcourse the thing, we are thaught from a young age that if you cannot get girls to like you you will be alone and sad and a loser. The opposite is ofcourse true, however fear is a great motivator. So every idiot starts working their ass of so they can work 40 hours in the week to earn enough for a family and a house and vacation and 2 car ect. Then they ofcourse need to look good, so they all get the same haircut, where the same but slightly different clothets, start trying to get buff or learn some other skill to impress women. Then it blows their mind that a guy who does not work for it can get almost all the girls and a guy that works like crazy sometimes get lucky. And this is indeed the whole point, men are delluding theirselves into thinking that if they cannot get girls there is something wrong with them (they are not perfect enough), however this is a misunderstanding. There is something ''wrong'' with them in the sense that they are not the ones giving the girls the tingles. But how much they might change this will never become the same as with the guy who does not have to work for it.

Long story short, if we could learn not to chase pussy and focus on what we like alot of men would have beter personallities and not a look the same, and most likley alot less suicide among men.

rationalthought314 · 2018-02-07T10:48:11+00:00

society preys on the ignorance, inexperience, and hormones of young men telling them that only women can give them validation and worth. Successful men are always presented as having beautiful women hanging off them. Hot cars have hot women draped on them. In the movies, the guys are always chasing the girl (and winning). So in the real world you end up with a lot of depressed young men who think they are worthless because they don't measure up to the unrealistic standards of women. They think the problem is with themselves as the narcissistic girl they had their heart set on ignores him in favor of a dozen tinder hook-ups.

Not all men were meant to get pussy

You still make it sound like it's their own fault for not winning the genetic lottery and being a Chad.

Not everyone can be Chad and not everyone should try to be.

The proverbial chad still has his own problems with women. Many of them get married because that's what is expected of them. Many companies don't like single executives. If they are the drug-dealing loser Chad type, then they have their miserable life to look forward to and prison.

dontscreef · 2018-02-07T11:14:47+00:00

So true. I've never had that much problem landing tuna. But most if the time, it's just that, fucking a piece of tuna. I can count the number of girls who are really into me for who I am and not what I do for them and their image of themselves with an amputated arm. Pussy is great, just not the cunt it usually comes with.

tw-1234a · 2018-02-07T13:06:45+00:00

You have to fight Hollywood and all those romcoms where the ugly guy harasses the hot chick into loving them for themselves.

I didn't figure it out until lately that women write these because they are projecting themselves as the male in the film. The women writers are saying women should be loved by the Chad no matter how fat and ugly they are.

Unfortunately there are guys who try this crap and learn doing so will get you an arrest record.

Sumo94 · 2018-02-07T05:54:49+00:00

I’m above average in looks and sometimes I wish I was ugly. I feel like I have to please women since I can benefit them.

KaitouNala · 2018-02-07T08:32:10+00:00

FA guys?

justareflektorr · 2018-02-07T08:38:15+00:00

For me the biggest thing was social indoctrination, I was raised believing all this tradcon BS, marrying your HS sweetheart etc. No one told me that the world had changed.. Glad I found MGTOW, or else I would've been in a world of hurt by now.

EveryMetaIsCancer · 2018-02-07T13:33:16+00:00

Why aren't men taught that pursuing sex and pussy isn't worth the effort for a certain percentage of men?

have to spent months or years worth of work

have to (...) pay for offspring that aren't yours

that's why. Sheilas need someone to provide for them, cause Chad sure won't, hes just gonna find a new sheila.

mgtow-zen · 2018-02-07T18:10:29+00:00

Because then people would have to face the fact that this world is pointless and that the only sensible thing to pursue is getting out of it.

Can you imagine what it'd do to the GDP? :)

John3329 · 2018-02-08T00:51:26+00:00

This status given to Chad should be broken down destroyed He is used as much as the orbiters, yeah he gets sex with lots of THOTS but whats that worth.

theWillpowerEngine · 2018-02-08T06:53:16+00:00

Because it's mostly women who teach men these days, and the Pussy Cartel has an interest in making sure that demand for pussy outstrips supply.

Sex is fun, but the importance it has in society and in a lot of guys' heads is so overblown as to be ludicrous. It's not that wonderful, sometimes it even kind of sucks. I've had sexual encounters that, in hindsight, I would rather have stayed home and read a book.

somuchluv2give · 2018-02-07T04:44:12+00:00

Dumb question.

Title	Telling men the truth
Author	Lamburghini89
Upvotes	89
Comments	41
Date	February 7, 2018 2:16 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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