What was the most demeaning thing a woman has ever done Or said to you ?

587Boat · 2017-03-26T03:47:36+00:00

I was a young sailor. My girlfriend at the time was the finest young lady on earth, or so I thought. Now please understand...as a general rule, I would NEVER insult or demean a lady in public...I still don't. In any event, this gal had been bitten by the feminist movement, first generation. So any time we were out with friends, she would start loudly proclaiming, "Who needs men? I don't need any man!" Well I mentioned to her that I found it somewhat unpleasant. Her response? "You're a big tough guy, so deal with it!" So I filed that away. A few weeks later we were in a restaurant with some other couples, and naturally she went into her "Who needs men?" act. When the bills came, I told the waitress that we wanted separate checks. Turns out she had no money with her. She looked like she'd been shot. So I just said, "Who needs men? YOU DO!" Get your coat...we're outta here." She was furious on the ride to her house. She wanted to vent some more when we got there, but I just reached across and opened the door, told her to get out and forget my name. I blasted the clutch and thanks to a posi rear, left two beautiful ribbons of rubber all the way down the street.

I wish I could say that I shouldn't have reacted that way, but the truth is I still think that was on of my proudest relationship moments, and I'd do it again in a New York minute.

Morb357 · 2017-03-26T03:28:31+00:00

"I do." Someone had to say it.

ZergSuperHighway · 2017-03-26T04:41:42+00:00

-In front of my mother while I was eating dinner: "You know if you get any fatter I'm not going to fuck you"

-To my mother another time while I was eating dinner: "Your son knows if he gets any fatter I'm not gonna sleep with him anymore I don't know why he keeps eating"

-"Come here and fuck me OH GOD GET OFF OF ME! You look so heavy how much weight have you gained! Get on the fucking scale I want to know how much weight you've gained since we started dating"

-(to her girlfriends complementing on how "hot I was") EHHH don't complement him if you give him a big head he will stop going to the gym and get fatter and I won't wanna fuck him anymore

-You're too feminine for me you're like a fucking high-school girl with your emotions (after criticizing her ex for being cold and detached)

-Hey let's do a threesome with him he told me he has a big dick

-(in response to my not wanting to have the threesome with her friend) I thought you were open-minded you know I hate jealous men

btw all the fat shaming was while I was fighthing in amateur MMA at 200 lbs standing at 6'2'' (I actually believed I was fat and hated myself)

-"haha is that it" ( the first time showing my erect penis to my first girlfriend in highschool - it took me several years to build up the courage to have sex again and a few more to truly learn that nearly 8 inches is not small)

-You know you're just going to end up a drunk like your father

I'm now realizing that I could write a small book with just the insulting and degrading things women have said to me

thingseverybodylove · 2017-03-26T03:02:14+00:00

My mother: 'You were an accident, I didn't even want you'

2017-03-26T03:48:02+00:00

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allowsnackbar · 2017-03-26T05:05:13+00:00

Women viewing me as brute force labor. Any guy here who's sufficiently tall and strong knows what I'm talking about. Women you hardly even know expecting you to move things for them, shovel their driveways, etc. Of course there's almost never a payment (in the form of a meal or something) in return for helping them.

MGTOW_Monger · 2017-03-26T08:32:36+00:00

"You need to man up"

because I did not support her in shouting and being rude to a customer when she was in the wrong, rules are you diffuse the situation not make it worst, I dont understand how she thinks the manager jumping in to shout at the customer will make it better or look good for the business but somehow she still got to keep her job.

Can you imagin if I was female, would she have told her manager she needs to 'woman up' and I wonder how long a man could keep his job if he swore and shouted at customers.

It must be great to be a woman, you get to act like a 12 year old for the rest of your life with no repercussions. Always someone elses fault.

MGTOW_Monger · 2017-03-26T07:12:25+00:00

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Rescuedbeta · 2017-03-26T07:25:36+00:00

That I'll never be married or have another girlfriend. She was right, that was 8 years ago my highschool coldheart I loved like no other and had thousands of dreams about until a rich dude flirted with her and I've been pumping and dumping since. No girlfriends or wives. A 31 year old just left my place 30 minutes ago. Her friend scouted me I charmed her and all l I had to do was dance with her to take her home. Total cost was a condom and load of laundry to wash my sheets.

NonNisiTe · 2017-03-26T08:15:26+00:00

(1. I had done some work outside on a hot day at my grandmother's house. When I finished the work that needed to be done before lunch, I came into the house and rested for a few minutes on her couch to cool off. Immediately my grandmother tells my mother in a loud enough voice for me to hear, "I wish I was born with a penis so I could spend my life doing nothing."

This is a woman who is now in her early 90s and lives alone (her husband passed away 20+ years ago). Because he was frugal and forced her not to spend money, she was able to live very comfortably for 40 straight years of retirement. And she still thinks that men doing fucking nothing. He was an airline mechanic on an oil base overseas and all she had to do was be a typist and pop out kids. She did not even do a good job raising the daughters she had. One daughter was schizophrenic and never got the help she needed (passed away). My mom and my aunt did drugs and fucked whatever guy gave them attention. Both women had their college paid for by their parents. My aunt went to finishing school. My mom studied Special Education (up through masters) and quit after a few years of working because it was "too much to handle".

No matter what you do for a woman, they will never appreciate at it. The only person who truly appreciates me, besides myself, is my male best friend.

(2. After experiencing years of bullying and abuse from my mom's side of the family, I decided to stop going to family events at all (Christmas, Thanksgiving, etc.). My mother basically told me to "Man Up" and essentially take the abuse.

(3. Constantly being asked by my female family members "what are you doing with your life" every time I see them. Give them the same answer every time. They don't care. In my family you are only valuable if you make a bunch of money to spend on them or if you have a bunch of cute babies.

(4. Mother divorced my father and pretty much destroyed any stability I had growing up. As I grew up she told me that she expected me to take her of her when she was older, despite the fact that she never loved me as a mother should love her child. I was glad to be by my dad's side as he passed away this past June (he collapsed on the way to the bathroom on a saturday morning as I was helping him there). I will never ever offer my mother the same care that I gave my father. I owe everything to him. He is the one that supported me.

(5. Rented out a room in a house in Michigan when I was studying graduate work. Landlady lived there and was a older Catholic woman. Anytime she did something that she thought was beneficial for me, she would repeat the phrase, "I hope that you appreciate what I have done for you" over and over until I acknowledged her. If I did not live there, she would probably have had to foreclose on the home. Somehow she and her husband were underwater on the house despite easily making $200,000+ a year...she was making $80,000 teaching middle school orchestra and he was a lawyer (they were separated but not divorced).

GreenPiller · 2017-03-26T08:56:42+00:00

"I think you are being a pussy" After telling my female best friend I was in a deep depression.

chaircushion · 2017-03-26T07:03:49+00:00

Being demeaning is one of those tells, many people don't know they have.

Unfortunately many men stay with this kind of woman and I guess the main reason is probably because they are conditioned to believe that women are like children while men have to be strong and put her hapiness before theirs.

If she is demeaning, especially in public, you end the relationship. Don't hope for better times. Don't excuse her behavior. Not different when it's your mother.

Mortis_XII · 2017-03-26T07:38:04+00:00

"You put on weight. You made me asexual"

Outside the hospital

My dad was there having surgery for colon cancer in there

W00jie · 2017-03-26T11:26:46+00:00

My ex used to complain in front of my parents that I took to many showers and changed my clothes to often, Well at the time I was working as a welder and I would come home covered in dust and sweat, Especially during the summer.

Would she prefer I stayed covered in shit, God I cant remember how many times she complained about my "overwashing"

Another time we went to see mission impossible 3 and throughout the movie she commented about how sexy Tom Cruise was, I mentioned once that Michelle Monaghan looked nice in one scene and my ex got pissed at me. Spent the rest of the night having to apologize for finding an actress pretty.

mercurialmf · 2017-03-26T03:14:05+00:00

"Youre a guy you should take out the trash...."

no_gal_friend · 2017-03-26T21:53:35+00:00

She is the same ethnic or racial background as you.. and she said: " I don't date <you and her ethnic background> ___ "..

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2017-03-26T03:18:14+00:00

I don't recall ever being demeaned by a woman.

(Just to add some balance).

MGTOW_Monger · 2017-03-26T08:54:41+00:00

Divorce rape and attempted child custody rape when treating her like queen?

Yeah, that

2017-03-26T14:21:30+00:00

She told me I was her best female friend

now she could have rejected me in any other way, but she decided to pretty much tell me "in my eyes you are not even a guy"

and she totally expected me to stick around after hearing that, lol

2017-03-27T13:21:03+00:00

I was in a LTR relationship working my was off while she sat home playing video games. She wanted to go on a holiday to the gold coast with her brother, her and I, but the catch was she expected me to pay for it all.

I stated no and that I'm saving for a better housing situation for us, as we were living in a shitty granny flat. She persistent for weeks all the time begging, while I repeatedly explained no and why...Heck I even said I'd happily save up after we rent a better place. I pushed myself through hell and back at work providing and one day she asked again and I snapped saying "if you want to go on this darn holiday so much, pay for it yourself". Pfft after that the pathetic bitch sulked and we broke up a little later.

Ditched the chaotic job and now working on what I love... stay MGTOW my brothers

301niko · 2017-03-26T18:31:18+00:00

I don't know if it fits too much but my mother told me not to sleep with her on a holiday because I might rape her while I was sleeping. Ended up sleeping on floor. Told her to protect her during the night not to rape herself.

solaceFromSolitude · 2017-03-26T19:50:22+00:00

Too many times to mention here. I have always been put down at one point or another by my gfs for no good reason. It is simply how these emotional creatures work I guess.

Title	What was the most demeaning thing a woman has ever done Or said to you ?
Author	Satorilotus108
Upvotes	15
Comments	40
Date	March 26, 2017 2:49 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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