Summary: Jesus tapdancing christ I'm finally not a fucking incel again.

Body: Hey TRP. I've done a couple of field reports before, but if you read them/have read them before, you'll notice something's missing that's in most FRs... the lay. Not this time.

For some context - I'm 5'8", maybe 5'9". 150ish pounds, not sure %bf, but I lift like 5x3 100 for bench, 205 deadlift. So I'm still pretty small compared to where I'd like to be, and I'm not packing six-pack abs either, but I have a v-shape at least.

I went out recently with a girl I met on an app. Her pictures made her look like a 5, maybe a 6. She initiated, asked to meet, and I said we'd get drinks - I figured I'd see if she just had bad photos, and bail if I didn't like her looks.

In person, she was a 6. A little bigger than I usually like girls, let's say Rubenesque - some fat, but well distributed, full tits and ass, no gut. I figure I'll go for it and see what happens, a 6 is enough that I'm happy to end my years-long dry spell with her and not feel like I'm punching down. Hell, happy to fuck repeatedly if it's easy.

Talked with her at the bar, tried to refocus away from downer topics, tease, do some touching. Got hungry, decided it was time to go home and eat (bar food way too expensive and I have gains to make). Asked her to come to my place, and she accepted.

At this point I felt like it was in the bag. Girls know what going back to your place means.

Once we get inside, I go for the kiss. Things heat up, I ask her back to my room. She throws some ASD, suggesting that we should do it next time we see each other. I agree verbally while escalating physically.

This becomes a pattern - she says the dress is staying on, I say OK and keep driving her crazy. Eventually she's blowing me, and then she's naked in my bed, I'm inside her - yes, wrapped, I'm not an idiot - and six hours after we met, she's getting in a cab saying she wants to see me again with a look that says she thinks I may just walk away.

However, a few days later, she says she doesn't want to meet again; had a great time, but too much too soon. My feelings on this are mixed - it would have been nice to plate this girl, but I wasn't going to LTR her for a whole host of reasons, so I don't really give a fuck - on to the next conquest. Still, I'd love to see suggestions in the comments about how to make an ONS into a plate for the future - my inclination is that I needed to be a little more comforting and send her a lightly beta text the next day while it was fresh, rather than waiting a few days for her to regret her decision before asking when she wanted to meet again.

It's not exactly a threesome with two HB9's, but I've NEVER DONE THIS SORT OF THING SUCCESSFULLY BEFORE. I can't help but think I can only go up from here as I continue to tighten up my game, physique, and financial status.

This was not the first girl I matched with on apps, either. I've had multiple flakes after getting numbers, and way more who just go non-responsive after one or two responses. I've had multiple flakes from day game as well, and a couple of failed first dates where when I tried to escalate I got shut down.

If I'd focused on all that, I wouldn't be here posting a FR about the time I did score an ONS.

Lessons Learned: This stuff works, guys. I know this is preaching to the choir, but it works even if you're not jacked and over six feet. Be confident and maintain eye contact. Escalate physically in order to polarize. Be persistent in your escalation once she's isolated. Drive her crazy until she asks if she can suck your dick, and promises to be quiet when you fuck her so she doesn't wake your housemate.