My Ladies First story and other eye opening every day interactions

Archwinger · 2016-07-22T16:47:23+00:00

So you're at a store. A woman disrespects you -- she doesn't walk up to you and say, "Excuse me. I'm in a real hurry today. Would it be okay if I got in front of you?"

No, she walks up to the cashier and says, "I'm making a dumbass show of talking to you about this loser guy standing here, because by physically inserting myself in front of him to have a conversation with you, he'll probably just step aside anyway, because I've pegged him for a loser."

How did you respond to this? You immediately launched into an explanation about how you only have X number of items and this woman has more. As though you needed to justify why you won't grant this woman her request. As though you would have granted it under other circumstances.

You never explain yourself or defend yourself or argue with women.

You simply say, "No. Move." Or you banter a bit, "I only do favors for women I'm sleeping with." Or you play with her and make her buy you a bottle of water because waiting for her is going to make you sooo thirsty.

But not you. You explained and defended and argued. Then, when another register opened up, you were stupid and snarky about it.

Tre_Walker · 2016-07-22T16:09:52+00:00

Get some Frame. There's plenty of posts here on letting go of the revenge fantasy.

Now you're just the petty jerk. Without the snark, you're an unapologetic man.

Who do you think you'd rather be?

NightwingTRP · 2016-07-22T16:41:51+00:00

2 walks up and says to 3: Hi! I was just wondering if I could convince this man to let me get in front of him in line. I say to 2 I only have 2 small items and your basket is half full, I dont think so. Cashier (3) looks at me and says havn't you ever heard of Ladies First? I say "Yes I have but I could never come up with a good reason for it". They all 3 stood without an answer and looked at me with as if I had just short circuited there entire matrix of reality, a look of dissociation or cognitive dissonance. I felt the tension and reveled in it to see what response might come, none did. I could almost see sparks coming from their tiny little brains as synapses were overloaded.

This was solid. They started stupid shit.

Right then a new register opened and I took it before #2 could and checked out with my items before the first woman could even check out. I turned with a big smile to all 3 of them, held up my items and said "How is that for men first?" and walked out the door. A small victory no doubt but I notice how inconsiderate people are in the grocery store, in public in general, who blocks the aisles with big butts sticking out and carts in the middle of the aisle and is amazing just how entitled women feel in public interactions.

This was stupid. You dropped to their level. If you are really a man, then you are better than the average woman and don't need to sink to her childish behaviour. Keep that in mind as the lesson here. You will continue to encounter childish, entitled women in your life. Don't respond as another child. Respond as the mature father. Your amused mastery in the first instance was good, but there's no way you could describe your actions after that as amused mastery. I suggest re-reading Rollo's piece on this on Rational Male to really make it concrete in your mind.

Trumpipede2016 · 2016-07-22T16:07:24+00:00

I lmaod when I read the first one where their tiny brains are overloaded

MattyAnon · 2016-07-22T19:37:59+00:00

As I drove away I thought he probably just made her panties wet!

Your post made sense until this bit.

Cashier (3) looks at me and says havn't you ever heard of Ladies First?

You'll find your stories read better if you refer to the women as blondey, browney and landwhale-cashier. A better answer than yours is to look each of them in the eye very slowly... pause for dramatic effect... and then simply say "No".

flat6turbo · 2016-07-22T20:10:45+00:00

to me, strange females and homeless bums asking for things are pretty much the same, and deserve the exact same response, if they can't be outright ignored.

"No."

you should practice how to just say No. without any further explanation, apology, or anything. if you can't do it, it's probably because you're a bitch.

solidsnork · 2016-07-23T04:53:25+00:00

I enjoyed your story. But I like being an asshole to shitty people. We have some members here that like the passive aggressive frame approach though, which is fine.

Forcetobereckonedwit · 2016-07-23T07:13:14+00:00

Beautiful. Just beautiful.

Keep it up.

ecosci · 2016-07-23T22:11:42+00:00

That was some fake alpha bs women know when your not a true asshole so stop practicing on other people and be comfortable in your own skin your lucky she didnt have a bad ass dude with her but women love assertive men and when it comes natural you dont come to trp looking for a grade or score.Also you can be nice to women shes nothing special because you should have options anyway stop caring about how women respond to you they live in a illogical world.

2016-07-22T16:39:25+00:00

This made my morning.

Thank you for not letting those bitches push you around.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2016-07-22T17:15:12+00:00

Weird that she addressed the cashier. I would have still denied based on having 2 items, when she had way more, but she should have asked YOU.

2016-07-22T16:35:40+00:00

lol broski your hilarious. I enjoy your humor its a good third finger salute to the slores.

Title	My Ladies First story and other eye opening every day interactions
Author	Tre_Walker
Upvotes	11
Comments	31
Date	July 22, 2016 3:55 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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