When I was in high school, my dad asked my brother if I was gay because I was not dating any girls.

2QuietDude · 2018-01-09T12:43:29+00:00

Parents are like that, they're concerned. Can get annoying tho of course.

ElegantLordOTheManor · 2018-01-09T15:34:37+00:00

Men shame other men for this because misery needs company.

Women shame men for this because plantation/money + they're afraid other men will do the same if they see you're doing better without a woman.

Parents shame you for this because they want their genes to survive, a grandchild to re-live the time with little kids without the hassle, an excuse for more family gatherings and of course to boast.

2018-01-09T16:06:08+00:00

I spent a lot of time with my male friend in high school, my mom asked me with grave imporance if I was gay even though I had been dating girls before.

It was a lot of fun, you never laugh and enjoy yourself like you do with close male friends.

shizlordsupreme · 2018-01-09T22:47:07+00:00

Bro. I'm 32 now and every time I visit home...my mom tries to hook me up with "nice" women. Granted I love my mom...but these nice women are usually divorced with kids that come into her salon. My mom even gives me shit when a woman hits on me and the first question she asks is "so what do you do"...I say "odd jobs. whatever to get by". Mom tells me that I make myself sound like a loser. I say "good. you and me both know they are only after one thing".

arcb7c69e2 · 2018-01-09T15:24:23+00:00

There is a mentality that if you are a man, and not chasing women, you must be homosexual. Talk about stereotyping. Unfortunately, there's little to be done except telling people the brutal truth when you are asked.

ageontargaryarn · 2018-01-09T16:37:54+00:00

Lol I'm 26 and I'm refusing to get married so my parents are wondering the same thing about my sexuality

fcb98292 · 2018-01-09T17:30:33+00:00

I’m the same way. I’m 26 and never had a girlfriend. Throughout my life, people have questioned my sexual orientation because they have never seen me with a girl. I just have a low tolerance for drama and I cherish my freedom.

wawakaka · 2018-01-09T15:24:05+00:00

Same here until my mom found my stack of porn then never a word about it

Kart0ffel · 2018-01-09T17:20:46+00:00

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truelife2017 · 2018-01-09T17:41:05+00:00

It is called: Indoctrination (From Wikipedia)

Humans are a social animal inescapably shaped by cultural context, and thus some degree of indoctrination is implicit in the parent–child relationship, and has an essential function in forming stable communities of shared values.

People see guys chasing women all the time everyday, if I have a son and he is not chasing women therefore he must be gay.

A lot of women are made fun of if they don't want to have kids, a lot of them called Lesbian etc...

Kids are raised in a Cristian family, most likely they will be Cristian.

Kids are raised in a Muslim family, most likely they will be Muslim.

Kids are raised in a Atheist family, most likely they will be Atheist.

It just shows how most humans are incapable of thinking for themselves, anytime you talk about something that you think is right or wrong you should ask yourself (Is my opinion really my opinion or I'm just repeating what someone else said in the past without actually evaluating the question/answer)

Averageeurodude · 2018-01-09T18:09:41+00:00

I'd wish I had seen the light at such an early age. All that time and money wasted on a bunch of useless women. Luckily I'll never make that mistake again..

m41aspd · 2018-01-09T16:54:04+00:00

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watain218 · 2018-01-09T18:57:57+00:00

I had to explain that to my extended family. They never accused me of being gay outright but they implied it. I told them Im following the mike pence rule because I dont want a boyfriend in prison. #meetoo was the last straw and the impetus for me to embrace the monk lifestyle. Im not going to jail for a bit of pussy.

Mi91iwjw · 2018-01-09T16:24:53+00:00

Same here. I never talked about girls throughout middle and high school. My circle of friends would disconnect from a conversation every time some school hoe would walk by then spend the majority of the conversation talking about how they wanted to smash her. It annoyed me. So everybody thought I was gay because I never talked about girls or checked them out when my friends did. It was stupid to me and a waste of time. Then the gay rumors started going around about me.

I was still a white knight dumb fuck cuck throughout those years though lol

xemarosa · 2018-01-09T18:36:51+00:00

My coworkers asked me this the other night. I won’t dare tell them the truth.

cashmoney_x · 2018-01-09T15:13:37+00:00

In high school?

Nah, you're hamstering away insecurity/not being attractive to them. Teenaged hormones are WAY too strong for that to be true.

teclado_sw · 2018-01-09T17:20:32+00:00

I've had a few people ask me that, but never my parents. They've actually been pretty awesome - very little pressure. Maybe an occasional "she's a nice girl, why don't you ask her out?" But not that frequent.

fcb98292 · 2018-01-09T21:04:32+00:00

I know guys who told their peers they were gay, just so the bitches would leave them alone. But then the gay bitches would start in. That was bad, but not as bad as the girls.

fcb98292 · 2018-01-09T21:21:46+00:00

I simply keep my supply of pussy on the other side of the ocean. Nobody outside of that region knows about the girls I enjoy. My choice is due to the western female norms that presently stink up the USA and its allies. I know what I like, and despite swearing off the entitled, feminist pigs that inhabit this land, good pussy is still an appetite that I have no wish to part with. Those in my life curious enough to ask about my preferences get the simple reply of "you will never meet them." This answer implies multiple partners and secrecy. Let them go on guessing among themselves.

I get what I want, the girls and gays get fodder for gossip, and the family rests in the knowledge that yeah, I get all the pussy I want. MGTOW has changed me from pussy-dependent spending every waking hour in the cunt hunt to being discriminatory about which if any females that qualify for my pleasure. It just so happens that none of these women are in Western nations, nor are they in the grips of feminism or its stench of baggage.

If my variation of the woman haters club earns me a special designation, fine. I am not seeking approval.

tacktac · 2018-01-10T00:28:50+00:00

$250,000 is about the price for 1 kid. Way too much risk until we get real birth control that cant have holes poked in it.

robowriter · 2018-01-10T01:22:36+00:00

The women in my family were like that. Who're dating, anyone special blah bla blah you look for the first opportunity to escape.

kubicas · 2018-01-10T13:07:49+00:00

Lol my grandma thinks that too xd my grandfather asks me every time if i have a girlfriend... beside the fact he divorced twice and went through a lot of shit. I can tell even now who wears the pants in da house. Stupid social pressure xd

kubicas · 2018-01-10T13:07:54+00:00

Lol my grandma thinks that too xd my grandfather asks me every time if i have a girlfriend... beside the fact he divorced twice and went through a lot of shit. I can tell even now who wears the pants in da house. Stupid social pressure xd

khongor14 · 2018-04-10T02:45:36+00:00

I never dated in high school too, because I was extremely obsessed about my business.

ElegantLordOTheManor · 2018-01-09T13:57:50+00:00

The truth is you were incel

Title	When I was in high school, my dad asked my brother if I was gay because I was not dating any girls.
Author	ElegantLordOTheManor
Upvotes	145
Comments	84
Date	January 9, 2018 12:35 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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