Frame struggle with slut / plate.

oa09283409 · 2016-07-30T00:19:17+00:00

Man....

Is it not completely obvious to you that this girl is crazy and worthless, and that you should disassociate yourself from her ASAP?

Are you guys really this dense?

LiftingtoAcension · 2016-07-30T00:38:07+00:00

Who gives a fuck about the uber? If you she happens to give you the smallest amout of attitude, Soft next her.
Just say "I don't do drama :)" Don't explain your self, don't justify anything, don't reply to her. That's it. She will realize she fucked up.

RED_PILL_TRUTH · 2016-07-30T04:01:37+00:00

hard oneitis. you have blown frame. uber receipts? come on man. we've all been here- nothing good comes from it. be a man and don't wait for her to "soothe you with her sweet words". sounds like one of my ex's. she's a drunk and she's playing you.

you can't turn a HOE into a housewife. she's gross. hard next. this post shouldn't even be here. next time keep it in askTRP

__ROOSTER__ · 2016-07-30T03:12:07+00:00

"I really want to keep sleeping with her" "I sort of apologies"

consider taking the RedPill

its over there ---->

probpoopin · 2016-07-29T23:59:42+00:00

Oneitis. You wouldn't write this much if you didn't care. You know the drill...

nsareadsmyemails · 2016-07-30T04:10:58+00:00

Asking for Uber receipt is anti abundance mentality as fuck. You really got time for this? Instead, make a video of you squatting your PR and let us check your form. GTFO with asking chick to prove something by showing you something. Trust but verify is not meant to be this literal. I am cringing now thinking about you asking her for a verification of the fact that she only slept with (insert number here) dudes, hope she kept the receipt from those dates. She done fucked that night, it just wasn't you. Hard next dude.

Trigger-Me-Daddy · 2016-07-30T09:36:43+00:00

she would back off and disappear .. until the next month.

Do you know what girl phenomenon is periodic and repeats every month?

The last time was way more intense, maybe as I've started lifting seriously for six months now and hadn't seen her for the last two. Same deal except it lasted three or four days and then she pulled this shit where she says "meet at 10" but then goes radio silent.

So you're basically her booty call. She's the one calling the shots. It was her frame.

Finally she calls (doesn't tell me where from). I can tell she's drunk. She hangs up. I know what's going on. She's found a better offer and is going that way tonight.

Perhaps. Perhaps not. Perhaps you give too much shit.

I'm at risk of oneitis (probably more than at risk truth be told) so I think fuck this shit, block on WA etc.

Uproot that ONEitis straight from the first signs. Good call.

She texts me, rings me the next day "how the fuck dare you do that - my sister's in hospital I got an uber immediately and went to see her etc etc". I sort of apologise but I still don't believe her.

Apologize for what? What did you do wrong to her?

So today (and this is central observation), we're having this WA chat.

So you're back on it after having blocked her. She owns you.

She really wants to keep me as a friend, I really want to keep sleeping with her.

See. You were her fuck buddy for when's she was ovulating and horny (that was the answer to my first question). But then you played in her frame, apologized, get back in touch with her. She realized you're more beta than she thought. She lose sexual attraction for you instantly, so initiate the orbiting procedure.

So .. the RP in me tells her to show me the uber receipt.

What? No! You don't Defend, Explain, Excuse, Justify, Argue or Rationalize your decisions. And you don't need to confront her with their shit. You know they gonna go crazy. At that point, you smirk and you just leave.

I can't be assed staying friends with a lying slut that I'm not sleeping with. What's the point ?

that's good.

I'm going to spare you the details of 2 hours of text chat btw, but it's text book hamster. Maybe I'll cut paste a few choice lines out later.

that's such a waste of your time... and ours if you want to share with us. We don't need it. We all know how it goes.

Anyway.. She goes fucking mental. How dare you call me a liar etc etc.

Female manipulation 101.

I'm : "I want to believe you, I really do.. but you've lied to me before. Show me this and I'll never distrust you again". Trust but Verify x 1000. She refuses on the grounds of "principalities" (sic) . I'm "sorry, then there is nothing between us".

I still wonder. You were banging her once a month. That's no relationship, that is booty call. There was nothing between you. Why do you care if she's banging other guys?

Jedi5241000 · 2016-07-30T02:17:33+00:00

Yes it's oneitis. She's trashy

Cut off all contact. Do not contact her anymore. Remove all traces of her from your life. Resist the temptation to call or text her

pcadrian · 2016-07-31T22:32:14+00:00

Don't keep toxic women in your life. Just reading the first third of your post, this is your issue - toxic women. Not oneitis. Not frame. But the fact that you allow a toxic bitch to stay in your life.

Even as plates, women should make your lifestyle better somehow. Pussy doesn't count, especially when it comes at the price of stress. You are stressed bro. Go read your own post. Hell my blood pressure went up from reading it.

Women who lie, play games, make you jealous, say one thing and do another, break promises, those women will make you go crazy. They are energy vampires. Hey do not love you, they are there to suck the life out of you. You end up living in fear, always worrying, always stressed, can't sleep, WTF. Dump this bitch.

Better to be alone for a short while and search for high value women than toxic Bitches.

zboo1h · 2016-07-30T18:09:45+00:00

When in doubt, silence is golden. They can't handle silence. If I feel (note that I said FEEL, I don't have to prove shit) that I've been disrespected by a plate in any way I just ignore them.

If they change their attitude, I get a world class blowjob. If they don't, I've got others anyway. Abundance, my dude.

ryan18020 · 2016-07-30T19:22:12+00:00

Trust but verify is an LTR strategy, not a plate strategy man lol. There shouldn't be any situations where you need to trust your plate. You make plans with her: she doesn't come? Cool you have a back-up plan(or plate) that's just as good or fun. You talking to her for 2 hours to feel better about the situation after she probably fucked some alpha Chad last night, who didn't give a fuck about her and just tossed her around all night, is very unattractive and a very easy way to lose a plate. You should have just ignored her dumb ass if you wanted to keep her as a plate.

firmness · 2016-07-30T12:58:26+00:00

the RP in me tells her to show me the uber receipt

Never ask for a receipt. Never ask for proof. Express your sadness for her sister's malady and tell her you have to go and will be in touch soon. Then move on with your life...if you have one.

That is how you act with her - regardless of what you are feeling inside.

LordThunderbolt · 2016-07-30T05:14:19+00:00

She's overly defensive she's lying. "How dare you" is nuclear beta shaming tacting to turn the situation on you. Just go radio silent until you feel a serious shift in power so you can fuck her on your terms, or just next her man. Fuck that bish.

ddelicia · 2016-07-30T12:52:48+00:00

This is classical lack of abundance mentality, which is one of the core foundations of TRP, if you had more options or at least believed you did, you wouldn't give two shits about some unworthy bimbo. You've yet to learn grasshopper.

vordster · 2016-07-31T01:01:46+00:00

If you want to fuck her next month then fuck her, don't get too emotional

meninistMD · 2016-07-31T17:10:40+00:00

No human being develop emotions on a monthly fuck basis.

newName543456 · 2016-08-01T13:43:43+00:00

If she's meant to be a plate, you're not supposed to put so much effort in her.

Whenever she bails and you talk later, say it's no big deal, you had somebody else at the time. If she goes mental over that, cut her out immediately.

Your_Coke_Dealer · 2016-08-01T15:15:55+00:00

Don't ask a woman to prove herself; it's an exercise in futility. If she bails on you and makes an excuse, it's not a question if she's lying. If she's not lying, she'll at least subtly put herself forward and prove it without you even asking.

In other words, your lessons are: AWALT (if a woman bails on you and it seems like an excuse, it is), and you need some abundance mentality (see more women, experience this flaky behavior more, realize you need to have more women so you'll never be waiting on one)

rfxrailgun · 2016-08-01T20:52:13+00:00

I know many will just say AWALT, but reading what she did gave me eerie flashbacks of my Narcissistic Personality Disordered ex-gf(yes, I unfortunately defied all logic and upgraded her beyond plate status). I'd stay away from that shit. Constant lies and hypocrisy, radio silence for extended periods only to pop up again and say they 'love' you, pre-occupied with convincing you they love you while running a one-sided open relationship game. Drug depencies. Strange phone calls from unknown numbers just to toy with you. Scrambling to tell implausible stories (lies) to support their disappearances, exaggerated denial and blow-out arguments if you point any of it out. Did she also happen to have weird tattoos, fall into modes when drinking (robotic..vacant stare, depressive), or run rampant in your place using all of your shit like a toddler having a tantrum? She's fried and will suck out your soul while only getting off on the validation and drama that will drive you crazy.

Title	Frame struggle with slut / plate.
Author	my_trp_throwaway
Upvotes	29
Comments	45
Date	July 29, 2016 11:34 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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