Just wanted to throw out a big THANK YOU for this sub!!! Came across it being a bored semi-beta at work surfing Reddit hitting the random button just hoping to come across a truly interesting sub-reddit. Low & behold I have hit the jack pot with TheRedPill. I used to have this mentality many years ago and slowly turned beta over the years due to pot, lack of exercise, social views/society.....
I have only been reading this for a week, but on day 1 it clicked for me knowing/remembering how to TRULY be Alpha again. Listening to my gut instincts, REALLY being myself, and not giving a shit what other people think. It has been a great feeling from day 1.
Nothing to big to report yet as I'm only getting started but I went out for the first time in a while last Friday to the local bar with my buddy and had a great night. Usually, I'm somewhat uncomfortable at a bar not knowing what to do, who to talk to, what girl should I try to hit on? Oh she gave me a look, now what....?
I went out with the attitude of "I'm just gonna have fun tonight, you in?"
Worked like a charm, already feeling super confident about my revelation just a few days ago about everything I had been doing wrong, I went into the bar feeling great without a care in the world, after all I'm just here to enjoy myself right? So long story short, again nothing amazing happened but it was a nice effortless night for me.
A cute blonde that I had been talking to throughout the night came up to me when I was talking/flirting with her friend and said, "Well here's my number since you never asked! You should come across the street with us, we're leaving."
*Looking back at that moment I should have left with them to go party, I thought they were going to another bar across the street but they were going back to their room....(I was pretty tipsy at this point and heard bar, but my buddy was like "No dude, she was asking you back to her room!")
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Anyways, I enjoyed myself and the flirting/convos with the women just seemed to flow very easily without much effort. I realize now I had been over-thinking everything when talking to girls. Less = More and they always want more, especially when you don't give it to them easily.
Sorry for the rant - just wanted to say thanks! Just gotta get my roomate out of his semi-beta mindset so I can have the ultimate wingman and we can go out and just start killing it in all aspects of life. He's ready - I know it!
TLDR: Took the RedPill, Tastes Great, Thanks!, Gotta spread the love...
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