Dating Market ain't worth the hassle.

andreas-mgtow · 2017-01-08T23:05:08+00:00

As a public service, before the RPrs show up and start their usual inane bullshit, here :

Frame, bleh, blah, Alpha, blah, aggressive, bleh, spin plates, blah, blah, neg game.

Not worth it.

geocitiesuser · 2017-01-08T23:07:16+00:00

Yeah, I'm fit and wealthy and have been getting ignored/rejected by hundreds of women for years. If I want to actually meet someone it involves a TON of effort on my part to show up at a coffee date that they may or may not even show up to, then when they do there's still a 50/50 chance.

Usually meeting them in person gets you in the door, but the amount of effort required is insane. Absolutely insane. Also, they're all fat. The ones who aren't refuse to reply to me... so I give up.

Raiden627 · 2017-01-08T21:06:37+00:00

Jeez, you must be bored out of your mind lol.

Quantumstinger · 2017-01-08T23:55:15+00:00

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baptized-in-flames · 2017-01-09T00:57:11+00:00

The dating game is skewed. Based off a 1-10 rating scale, most women rate themselves at least 3 points higher than they actually are. For men, if you aren't at least an 8/10, your only options for women are 6/10s or even lower.

The game is fucked. The only way to go is MGTOW.

scouse_till_idie · 2017-01-08T23:30:15+00:00

online dating is just an ego trip for women, photoshop and filters mean that all girls can look "hot" and get attention, don't contribute to that shit and their ego trip

Bartand · 2017-01-09T01:57:03+00:00

Most women on dating website are fake profile of scammers. Most women doesn't use them, they don't have to, they already have the village waiting in line to fuck her.

Raiden627 · 2017-01-09T00:16:10+00:00

Yeah man got with a girl myself for a month for the sex thinking it was going to be great and quickly realized that keeping a girl for a relationship to have sex is like buying the farm to get some eggs. Sure, I won't have sex as consistently as I was during the infatuation period but the bullshit associated with it is ridiculous and a woman will find any reason to explain why she's not happy - as if that's your job too - don't only manage your own emotional state after a long week but you have to manage hers on a minute by minute basis too.

Zombocom1911 · 2017-01-09T03:52:39+00:00

They really are stuck up and conceited these days aren't they? Why is it only men who are facing a strong dose of brutal reality whenever they log on to those sites? One day the pendulum has to swing back the other way.

mfg092 · 2017-01-09T07:28:20+00:00

The worst thing about the Western dating market is how lopsided it is. 66% of women are overweight or obese. So that realistically takes out about the same percentage of women. So the other 34% have no incentive to be somewhat pleasant, as they have 3x the normal demand.

wordjedi · 2017-01-09T06:58:48+00:00

Right, if all I can get are ugly fat chicks that don't really turn me on at all, what's the point? I'm neither ugly nor fat nor short, and I have education and money. It's like there are 100X more men than women dating, but we know that's not true outside of China.

cynicalsimon · 2017-01-09T00:02:24+00:00

Get a hooker.

Paladin2903 · 2017-01-09T06:26:22+00:00

With the current crop of women, and current trend of online dating (although I feel it's dying out some), I'd rather spend hours pricking my eyeballs with sewing needles.

2017-01-09T07:53:32+00:00

I like sex so I'm unable to go full MGTOW, but I avoid relationships like the plague. My advice: online dating is a waste of time... if you want to get laid just be social and hang out in bars. I have no time for dating and courtship. I'm all about FWB and ONS

MuscleCarz · 2017-01-08T22:10:33+00:00

That's why hookers are so great. It's an honest transaction and it's not demeaning if your mind is right. There is no negative karma if you are respectful of yourself and the girl you're spending time and money on.

Having sex with sluts is the same, just have to be respectful of her and you. There is honor in honesty and true exchange of resources. Even when dealing with women.

If you plan on taking a girl's virginity you better marry her and take her as your wife and have it be for as long as she lives and give her lots of babies. And love her every molecule. If you don't you are not only corrupting her, but yourself, and the lives of other men willing to take her on as a wife and love her and do right by her.

With sluts it isn't this way because you are not on the hook, you didn't take her virginity, and she has already been corrupted, so there is no negative karma.

2017-01-09T01:49:13+00:00

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DJP3525 · 2017-01-09T13:05:53+00:00

This might get buried, but I totally get still wanting to get laid and I am in your situation as well.

Thing to do: use your money to fuck prostitutes. Don't let the social stigma of it turn you away. It's the oldest profession as they say. It's only illegal to keep men under the control of women.

Use backpage to find them. Also, if you have the means and are a bit adventurous, travel to another country and fuck a lot of prostitutes for minimal money. If you live in the U.S., I would start with the DR and go from there.

EDIT: I guess this was already discussed on this thread. Happy hunting!

cashmoney_x · 2017-01-09T13:47:26+00:00

Lots of above average sized dudes in this sub......

funinsun10 · 2017-01-09T14:49:33+00:00

You keep harping on looks.... Its your available resources and are you willing to use those resources to excite her and empower her.. What is your socio-economic status... Are you a clown that can entertain the trapped girl inside her ruthless soul? And if you can... You'll get her golden treasure chest thats full of chuck e cheese tickets and plastic coins!!! My advice... Rent it.

Toffifee_BeiFjong · 2017-01-09T17:34:03+00:00

Ghosting women as a group was never the answer (IMO). They need to know what they've lost, otherwise the statement this movement makes is lost on them.

I'm not saying mgtow is about that statement but it's an important statement non-the-less. It prevents unwarranted questions about why many men choose to disengage from the scene.

That being said, if your idea of being mgtow is to just slip under the radar, then by all means godspeed to you.

I'll keep waving the flag that says 'women are the problem. As that will at least give them a hint to change and all the more deserving of contempt for choosing not to.

SO, going mgtow because you're not getting laid the conventional way is probably not a great idea. Maybe let the red pill sink in first and with some self reflection you'll know what's right for you.

Title	Dating Market ain't worth the hassle.
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Upvotes	50
Comments	54
Date	January 8, 2017 8:52 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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