We've all heard the platitude "Just be yourself" at some point in life. It could be from a child's cartoon in years past, a good friend inexperienced in with the world of women, or from a seemingly well meaning woman herself. On the surface it seems like the "right" advice. The safe thing to say. Who doesn't want to just chill out and do them in front of everyone?
Whether it's kicking back daily on a couch throwing down brews watching the Game, becoming engrossed in video games with reality defying breast physics, or getting a load off before sleeping by watching The Hub by "just being yourself" it's reasonable to expect to pull a curvy fit HB9 twerking and grinding at the club, right? By JBY you're entitled to the best the world has to offer without putting in the work and paying dues, isn't that right?!
Well here's a few questions. Hours before hitting the club when that HB9 spent 1/5th of the day applying black eye-liner and mascara was she just being herself? When she decided to throw on a 4-inch pair of heels to make herself look taller and her ass thicker for the occasion is she just being herself? When she added toilet paper to her padded bra for a more vibrant bust is she just being herself?
The reality of the matter is that "Just Being Yourself" especially in the the form of advice is a form of sexual filtering designed to facilitate female sexual selection. In other words, through social conditioning it collectively downplays mens' ability to peacock for the purpose of maximizing women's ability to accurately select men to satisfy her hypergamy. It's a latent form of male sexual sabotage that plays completely into the feminine imperative.
In stark contrast to the JBY conditioning "being authentic" entails being true to your own experience for the sake of your own personal desires and motives inspite of soceital expectations imposed on your consciousness. Personality is a fluid phenomena that changes with varying circustances. Although aspects it may remain intact over time the behavioral traits you embody now may be completely different in 5 to 10 years. Authenticity entails living to the utmost while developing your own self-image for your own purposes instead of opting to the feminine delusion of entitled Blue Pill complacency.
Lessons Learned:
Ignore what women say. Watch what they do.
The phrase "Just Be Yourself" is a form of social conditioning designed to stunt male SMP while maximizing accuracy for female hypergamic selection.
Being authentic involves personal accountability and effort whereas JBY is BP complacency.
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