Am I the only one who is in CONSTANT amazement how SHITTY it is to be a man in 2016?

fromdario · 2016-08-25T11:09:01+00:00

Well to be fair, youre assuming that all women are chased by hordes of men, which is simply not true.

Especially in countries like the US, most women have it rough. Only white THIN educated women are the spoiled ones and live in the greatest time in the history of women.

I would not trade places with a fat or unattractive woman. Thats literally the worst ticket in life. Men can at least work hard and become "something", be fit and polish their ugly looks to the max.

Women in my opinion are 99% of the time incapable of changing, or bettering themselves both physically and intellectually.

Lastly, most people here will tell you to stop complaining.

_TheUglyDuckling_ · 2016-08-25T11:08:27+00:00

if you have high smv, life is far from being shitty

nrafield · 2016-08-25T11:07:41+00:00

Thankfully this is not happening in every country. Yet.

allrandomworldnews · 2016-08-25T11:25:24+00:00

You have a point but I am also amazed that you had the time to serve us such a delicious glass of whine.

Do something about it or leave it be. Bitching about it won't change a thing.

p00pey · 2016-08-25T11:24:31+00:00

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makeitproductive · 2016-08-25T12:03:32+00:00

There was an excellent post on this topic some time ago and the gist of it is that women have problems too, they just aren't our problems.

A young woman will have every advantage in the world, but when she hits 45+ its over. Now she is a man minus all the preparation.
Dont apply solipsism. Women can find an easy fuck, but it doesnt mean it will make her happy. Unlike men they almost always feel regret and feel sadness after a ONS. And with their hypergamy finding a guy that she likes that will commit is very hard.
On the same topic men are visual creatures. Most guys are happy with a feminine hot girl, we instantly know what we like. Women can't know. A guy can look the part and still repulse them with his beta behaviour, and the worst part is they already invested precious months and her count is + 1
Society is making women more miserable than ever before. The rates of depression are through the roof.
Promiscuity and ONS are glorified and it destroys the bonding ability of most women.
Society tells them they should all be career women and it decries the good wife, the role associated with the most happiness. And when they realize they cant have it all in most cases. its over, they're over the wall and their ovaries are dry.
We are physically stronger and less likely to be robbed. After finishing medical school I backpacked through eastern and southern Europe, sleeping in buses, couches whatever I could find. Would never dream of letting my sister do the same.

And the best part is its never over for us, we can always turn it around. We have a much lower starting point, but there is no roof, no wall. You can wake up at 40 yo obese, unemployed and still manage to make something of yourself.

I'm a Man and I wouldnt have it any other way, you shouldnt either. Specially with all the knowledge and tools in the TRP, and with a pussy generation as competition.

Man-with-a-pitchfork · 2016-08-25T11:40:17+00:00

It's still better to be a man than to be a woman.

Most of the advantages women have go away when they turn 30. 30 is not that old - you still have most of your life ahead of you. For most women at 30 however, the best part is already over, and they are fighting a losing battle against decay.

For a man at age 30, it doesn't matter much what his life was like so far - he can still turn everything around and have a great and exciting life.

2016-08-25T12:03:33+00:00

And yet for some reason, so many of them seen just so damn miserable!!

drque5t · 2016-08-25T12:13:17+00:00

I am pretty new to the red pill, but I must say that the responses to this post have impressed me. I am stoked about the honesty here and the realism and rationality. A lot of other subs would have circle-jerked the shit out of a post like this on their sub, but not here. That being said, I agree with a lot of points OP makes, and find these realities very frustrating.

Rodear · 2016-08-25T12:14:58+00:00

If as a general rule women aren't having it better at this moment in time than males then why does the red pill even exist in the first place? Yes the op is complaining, but so what? Does not everybody at first? As long as he follows advice here, his life should improve.

PouponMacaque · 2016-08-25T12:18:41+00:00

Like a lot of the other people here, your lack of success and issues with women cause you to lash out at others. You play the victim, so you have an exaggerated idea of your own handicaps and the success of others. Quit bitching about other people and put your emotional strength and intelligence toward sorting your own shit out.

2016-08-25T12:18:54+00:00

This is why parents need to toughen up their boys by nurturing them differently from girls, and why raising boys the same as girls has lead to an epidemic of depression and suicides.

And when I say toughening them up - I don't mean coming down hard on them, I mean teaching boys to love themselves, to learn to put themselves first, for them to get self esteem by internal rather than external validation.

When you really like yourself, being teased in the playground, or having someone not like you, isn't a big deal. When you no longer think of yourself as a victim, but as someone who is proactive in life and understands the game, then you can start winning.

Yes, I know from experience that women get graduate positions more easily than we do - but due to various reasons they don't have the careers we do. Yes, they might get a lot more matches on Tinder - but they also need to weed through thousands of betas in the hope of finding one alpha. Women get praise for existing, we get praise for achieving.

Being a man is amazing.

2016-08-25T12:05:59+00:00

I feel that both genders have issues, but that women's are much more magnified and exaggerated by popular media, whereas men are basically told to "get over it."

Family Court injustice? Get over it.

Cheated on? Get over it. Man up.

Have bad body image? Suck it up.

Show emotion? You're a pussy.

Want to go on a date? Break out the wallet!

Raped by a female who is decent to good looking? She'll probably get a slap on the wrist because you totally wanted it.

Checking out women? You're a pig. But a female aggressively hitting on a man is "empowering."

I don't believe females have no issues, but the male issues are frequently overlooked. Luckily in some aspects the tides are slowly turning towards true equality. SLOWLY. Like Family Court is more open about judgements for fathers (like mine), but it has taken a long time to get to this point.

One of my biggest problems is the idea that men don't suffer from body image issues. You see feminists call out against Barbie and models, saying they're generally unrealistic expectations for the average woman. But it's ok to have figurines and movie stars who have 8 pack arms, large biceps, a perfect head of hair and a sharp jawline. I think everyone should do their best to stay in shape and be healthy, but it's the double standard that bothers me.

There's also the allowance of hypocrisy among feminists. How are we men to know what's "right" socially? If we look at them we are told we are objectifying them for sexual gains, but if we don't look at them because we don't find them attractive we are superficial dipshits. We can't win.

2016-08-25T12:08:51+00:00

Wah wah wah.

It's ridiculous but it's the way it is.

I wouldn't trade places with a woman personally so IDGAF.

Title	Am I the only one who is in CONSTANT amazement how SHITTY it is to be a man in 2016?
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Date	August 25, 2016 11:05 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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