hello I hope I am not breaking the rules of this subreddit.

I have read a lot of interesting things about this movement and although I don't agree with everything (but hey in my country men don't pay after divorce as much money as men in Western countries and I don't think they have problems you do-- at least not to that extent ) anyway I would like to hear your opinion about personal development.you criticize women a lot and I think that a good critic is always valuable. What in your opinion would help a woman be more valuable part of society and a better and more decent human being in general.Now I would ask you to not give advice like

"Get a job" Dont use men for money and resources" etc

that's realy obvious.

Thanks