I cannot simply walk away from a mother son relationship like I can with a girlfriend and it is more of a delicate issue, but wholly cow my mother treats me like a surrogate husband ever since my father died and its frustrating the hell out off me. She keeps making all of these stupid decisions and then complaining when things inevitably go wrong, and she just gets real angry every time I try to tell her why things are going bad. I have my own place and I see her about once a week but when I do its like she is intent on starting an argument and many disagreements with her are met with just sheer emotional rage or manipulation, there is no reason or rationality.