IOW: I'm a Bitch. "The Dating Struggles Of Being An Alpha Female."

JPDG · 2016-04-21T09:03:59+00:00

"Andrea is a 30 year old freelance writer living in the suburbs of Vancouver, Canada. She first discovered her passion for writing at the age of 10 when she began filling notebooks with poetry. She's a lover of wine, sushi, all things Parisian and spiking her coffee with Baileys. She is also a contributor for Elite Daily."

Definitely hitting the wall!

Ultramegasaurus · 2016-04-21T09:36:52+00:00

"Andrea is a 30 year old freelance writer living in the suburbs of Vancouver, Canada. She first discovered her passion for writing at the age of 10 when she began filling notebooks with poetry. She's a lover of wine, sushi, all things Parisian and spiking her coffee with Baileys. She is also a contributor for Elite Daily."

She's like a walking stereotype of a feminist post-wall hag.

methylotroph · 2016-04-21T10:18:28+00:00

I think my eyesight is going, all I can see is the sentence "I'm so great! I'm so great!, I'm so great!" over and over and over again, for pages! I think some of it is written in poop.

ss_camaro · 2016-04-21T09:00:44+00:00

TLDR: the wall @ 30mph.

legessi · 2016-04-21T10:27:48+00:00

She sounds awful.. Just awful to be around..

Her whole article is about how she is bossy and puts her men down

DigitalScetis · 2016-04-21T14:10:07+00:00

I don't think a 30 year old freelance writer is elite anything or alpha anything...not by male or female standards.

What sort of tabloid-worthy and paparazzi-worthy guys is she dating? What sort of cash has she made on her celebrity credentials? What sort of magazines and runways has she appeared in or on? What sort of designer is she wearing?

Those are the standards on which alpha females are judged. Notice it's an entirely different standard by which alpha males are judged.

No...this is just hamster-wheeling trying to convince the 17% of women in the aspirational class that they ought to be alpha females because of their attempts to mimic what they perceive to be "success traits".

They do not realize, however, that not only is their entire conception of what it means to be an "alpha female" wrong, their conception of why successful men (what they think are Alpha men) are successful is wrong.

Alpha men aren't alpha because they are opinionated, picky, aggressive and sarcastic. Alpha men are opinionated, picky, aggressive and sarcastic because they are alpha. Merely duplicating the external performance is not going to make you alpha man, and that's doubly true if you are a woman. It is just going to demonstrate how much of a poseur you are.

Case Study: Marcia Clark from the OJ Simpson trial.

exit-stage-right2 · 2016-04-21T15:33:46+00:00

Women don't get it! if you want to be alpha, then few men will seek you out to have children and or marriage. Hit the wall bitch

rebuildingMyself · 2016-04-21T13:58:05+00:00

WE HAVE SMART MOUTHS. (we are cunts)
WE’RE NOT AFRAID TO SPEAK OUR MINDS. (we are cunts)
WE TAKE THE LEAD, AND THAT MAKES MOST MEN RUN. (we are sluts, men don't like sluts.)
WE’RE UNFAZED BY CLICHÉ ROMANCE. (we are sluts)
WE’RE CHALLENGING. (we are cunts)
WE’RE BRUTALLY HONEST. (we are cunts)
WE HAVE VERY FEW DAMSEL IN DISTRESS MOMENTS. (we are liars)
WE’RE GENUINELY BUSY, AND IT FRUSTRATES OUR SUITORS. (cool.)

2016-04-21T13:08:08+00:00

This lady doesn't understand the difference between being self respecting Alpha and a narcissistic Bitch.

Bubblehead587 · 2016-04-21T18:40:08+00:00

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Teflon0819 · 2016-04-21T18:43:09+00:00

She deluded herself into believing she is "alpha", just like she deluded herself into believing that she's still single because that's what she wants.

boogalooshrimp1103 · 2016-04-21T20:34:08+00:00

I think Tom Leykis talked about this a few months ago. Any man that would go home to a woman like this would develop a serious drinking problem

ransay3277 · 2016-04-22T02:41:23+00:00

Here's my list. Enjoy..

WE HAVE SMART MOUTHS. And you always open them at the worst times.
WE’RE NOT AFRAID TO SPEAK OUR MINDS. Were just amazed at how little of it there is.
WE TAKE THE LEAD, AND THAT MAKES MOST MEN RUN. What she doesn’t say is the men run when done.
WE’RE UNFAZED BY CLICHÉ ROMANCE. She’s easy.
WE’RE CHALLENGING. You should be after all the hit and runs.
WE’RE BRUTALLY HONEST. Just don’t be brutally honest back.
WE HAVE VERY FEW DAMSEL IN DISTRESS MOMENTS. Have you ever driven by a woman on the highway whose changing her own flat tire? Actually no.
WE’RE GENUINELY BUSY, AND IT FRUSTRATES OUR SUITORS. This is because many of you are single moms..

MuscleCarz · 2016-04-22T03:11:04+00:00

We’re genuinely busy, and it frustrates our suitors.

LOL!! "Frustrates" your suitors? How about "repulses."

God forbid she take a good look at herself and realize any man with common sense and taste sees instantly--she's just a wound up, way too tight for living--let alone fucking--psycho robot. Jesus, what a "don't walk, RUN" turn-off!!

Being an alpha female is, for the most part, pretty awesome. I know this because I am one.

Congratulations, you just blew your cover RIGHT THERE, girl.

Common sense (if she had any) should tell her that ANYONE proclaiming "I'm alpha" is a sure fire way to tell the world you're trying like hell to look like you are, but in reality, you're NOT EVEN CLOSE.

Whether it’s our career, hobbies or sports...

And CATS!! Lots and lots of CATS!!

User-31f64a4e · 2016-04-22T04:09:16+00:00

We’re also incredibly stubborn, hard-headed, opinionated, and can be intimidating or misjudged by men.

Wrong, sweetie. Aside from listing a bunch of mannish qualities, she fails to list a single thing a man would care desire. IDGAF that you like wine and sushi and Bailey's; that is not what makes a good LTR (or FWB or ONS even).

Reading through it, she exhibits an almost total lack of self knowledge. Time and again, she says men don't understand or can't handle her ways. I guess to some extent, men are probably picking up on the crazy and staying away in droves. But mostly, I bet she has nothing to offer. She's hit the wall, she has purple hair (a sure sign of crazy!), she exhibits no femininity at all. Pro tip - men aren't looking for men to date, they are looking for women. We are looking for different things that what women look for, as we have different reproductive strategies. No man ever wanted a 'strong independent woman' unless he was brainwashed. So be feminine!

I've had a number of women say stuff like this to me - that they "Intimidate" men. The truth is, they didn't appeal. Add to that their aggressive nature - who wants to deal with an aggressive woman? With another man, you can deal with aggression; with a woman, you have no options! This is not intimidating so much as a pain in the ass that can not be overcome. It's just a no bid. Not fear and intimidation so much as, not willing to deal with unpleasant for no reason!

The PUA's make a Captain/First Mate analogy for relationships that work. I think this is probably valid. This woman is clearly someone who would lock you up in a perpetual battle for power, regardless of how 'alpha' you were. No thanks.

SigmaDiabolicum · 2016-04-22T09:50:07+00:00

Yawn.

2016-04-22T15:41:46+00:00

this woman is not "alpha". She is too angry to be alpha. There is nothing intimidating about her, just disgusting.

I dated a true alpha woman once. She was a very successful, award winning interior designer and a genuinely nice person. But she was also an extreme workaholic and could never relax, never wasted a single second of the day. It literally wore me out just being around her. I just couldn't go 100 mph all the time like that and was relieved when the relationship ended. That was 15 years ago and last I heard thru a mutual friend is that she is even more successful, bought some McMansion in the SF bay area.... and still single.

tramareddit111 · 2016-04-23T01:41:44+00:00

The hamster is strong with this one.

FrostyTroll · 2016-04-28T13:55:14+00:00

We take the lead, and that makes most men run.

I have a buddy who makes all women he meets run. By that logic, he must be so alpha that he can't even get laid.

Title	IOW: I'm a Bitch. "The Dating Struggles Of Being An Alpha Female."
Author	JPDG
Upvotes	11
Comments	58
Date	April 21, 2016 8:56 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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