I thought to loose my libido would be something terrible. I'm a man and I'm biologically programmed to want to put my penis in other women for the sake of passing on my genes..and it feels pretty damn pleasurable! That all changed when I was addicted to painkillers.(Judge me all you want! I was very depressed and I was desperate to feel something, anything to feel better about how unhappy I was). Anyways, a side effect of opiots is significantly diminished libido. So, I didn't jerk off as much and didn't care about women, as a whole as much. I'm not sure who was the brilliant guy who said this but the quote went something like this, : "what worth would a women have to a man if she didn't have a vagina?" Sure, it seems the definition of shallow but there is so much truth to it. As my libido diminished after months of drug abuse, I realized that relationships with women were more of a loose/loose scenario, so I stopped talking to women. To my surprise, women started talking to me more...but I didn't care, so I ignored them..literally. I'm not encouraging drug abuse but this really opend my eyes to male sexuality and what we can and cannot live without. Its all perception. You can live without sex, quite comfortably I might add (well theoretically, I suppose..) I just think you should give it a go and stop communicating with women for a while and work on you. See what happens. You will be very much surprised what you can accomplish.. On a side note, its acutely disturbing that were told, from the moment were born to be a white knight little bitch to women... I can assure you, that will get you no-where and that doesn't apply, only to women. TL;DR- Recovering drug abuser realizes life without women and sex isn't the worse thing in the world, human nature is contradictory and ironic and society indoctrinates you to do things that will lead you no-where.