"You pay for sex one way or another" is loser talk.

I know I'm not the only guy here who has had a girl come over just to get fucked, and then she leaves on her own. Regularly. And I'm not talking about a fuck buddy; I'm talking about a new girl whom you're meeting for the first time.

No doubt Tinder has made this infinitely easier, but it's almost always a high-SMV man with excellent game who pulls girls like that. Girls don't mind spending $30-50 for Ubers (to and fro) or drive upwards 20 miles (to and fro) to fuck a high-SMV man. Just two nights ago, I had an 18-year-old chick drive almost 20 miles one way just to come over for sex. She had the tightest pussy and the nicest ass ever.

Total spent? $0.00

So what's this talk about "you pay for sex one way or another?"

This is precisely the type of BP hamstering that we should be calling out and admonishing, most likely concocted by guys who:

1) Have only ever got laid by buying drinks/dinner beforehand, so they don't believe that getting laid is possible without spending money;

2) Only feel that they've earned or that they deserve sex after spending money on a woman (lack of sense of entitlement); and/or

3) Worst of all, have patronized prostitutes and are trying to obfuscate the huge dichotomy between financially incentivizing a whore to pretend to like to or want to fuck you, versus financially investing in yourself (e.g. gym, good food, clothes, nice apartment, new car, etc.) to become a man that women naturally want to fuck. They're trying to justify the fact that they need to pay to get laid, lumping everyone else with them.

There's a massive difference between spending money on a gym membership versus paying a hooker. Hell, there's still a massive difference between buying dinner versus paying a hooker. The hooker is obliged, morally and contractually, to fuck you after payment. The girl you take out on a dinner date isn't.

TL;DR When your SMV is sufficiently high, you don't need to compensate with gimmicks like dinners, drinks, gifts, etc. Girls themselves will beat a path down to your apartment just to fuck you, even if they have to drive long distances, even if they have to spend money to Uber there, and even if it's a long-ass day after work. Indeed there's no real way to measure your SMV (apart from your ever-increasing N-count), except to calculate how much financial investment or physical effort it takes you to fuck a girl.