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[–]anti_erection_man43 points44 points45 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I can confirm this. Two of the latest girls I fucked actually are in LTR, both partners sort of know about me, one of them sees me as a plan B, B because I'm not rich and that guy is.
Greetings from TRP.
[–]Morranaii24 points25 points26 points 10 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
The right question to ask is WHY women always NEED to be with someone? Maybe they go even more crazy when they aren't with a male?
[–]BrunoOh22 points23 points24 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Because women need men, but men don't need women.
[–]MaunaLoona6 points7 points8 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Fish, bicycle, etc.
[–]Morranaii2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
dogs, excercise, computers... parachute jumping, paintball, cycling.. well... everything! life is so much more than just relationships lol the problem is that females suck up your life energy (literally) and act like a parasite on your every activity.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Cat ladies.
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's human nature. Men have always been providers, and females always seek out the security of being with a man.
[–]colinKaepernicksHat0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
https://youtu.be/FxuBxQxY-kM?t=4m30s
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[–]Indigo_Monkey22 points23 points24 points 10 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
We are disposable. There is probably a backup backup too.
[–]DarkestJ6 points7 points8 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Definitely true. My then-fiance left me for her back up orbiter who she swore up and down was "just a friend" and he, in turn, as has been left for the third stringer as of recent.
We talked about the irony of it and he's recently converted to MGTOW as well because of the debacle. Funny how this shit works.
[–]Indigo_Monkey4 points5 points6 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's the depressing kind of funny
[–]cariboo_j-2 points-1 points0 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Converted?
What are we starting a religion now?
[–]DarkestJ4 points5 points6 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
con·vert
verb kənˈvərt/ 1. cause to change in form, character, or function. "production processes that converted raw material into useful forms" synonyms: change, turn, transform, metamorphose, transfigure, transmute
He converted from a life of blue pill bitchery to that of a MGTOW- that being living a life free of marital tyranny. Easier for you to understand there, Webster? There's no innate religious connotation the word "convert".
[–]cynicalsimon1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's a technicality. We are not literally disposable. Men are the most powerful gatekeepers. Women are simply the greeters. Weak and prone to conformity.
[–]YOLOGabaGaba11 points12 points13 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
lol The main man is fatter with a job.
[–]doublereignbeau12 points13 points14 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They forgot to add that 43% of the total women were in relationships.
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[–]Natsume214 points5 points6 points 10 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link
this is hypergamy iin action and the men who have a status that can take care of that.
Remember this TRP based, but sad truth.
Women will rather share who they perceive(note, perceive, not is, but perceive to be the winner) than have who they believe to be a loser to themselves
These perceptions differ depending on the woman. It's all about the perceived best she can get.
So one's rich stud is another's broke fat mama's boy.
But for the vast majority of women, tall white guys with money is the ideal of Western Society.
[–]Lil_Byte4 points5 points6 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You mean - women would rather share the winner than have the loser to themselves..
Although winner and loser are probably not the best terms.
[–]Natsume21-1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
that is why I said perception.
Winner and loser outside of sports is too absolute and rigged to be part of terms of sexual strategy, it too heavily suggests that there are people in life who stay failures and stay on top.
[–]Lil_Byte6 points7 points8 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Personally, I find it difficult to ascribe the term 'winner' to some of the people women choose to exercise their sexual strategy with. We're talking anything from hobos to prison inmates.
[–]oldredder0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
but that's precisely what happens. Very few migrate from failure to success or success to failure.
[–]10J18R1A1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's why I always say " perceived value." And that's not always financial.
[–]samirahmad25942 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
he's a good looking jock with rich parents
don't we all wish we were that.
but it's not fair because it makes sense for men and not for women. A man's value increases for doing this and a woman's decreases for the same act.
[+][deleted] -11 points-10 points-9 points 10 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Harder for a guy to have 2-3 plates than a woman to have 5 guys on the side.
Nothing "greasy" about it. He's an Alpha and you are a Beta to say that shit.
[–]sweatynut8 points9 points10 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Oh it's one of you guys where everything is either beta or alpha. You must be really fun to be around.
[–]aenigme3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Go home redpiller. You're drunk. Either you are going your own way, or you are trying to put up a front in order to spin plates.
The mod of /r/theredpill/ brazenly states that (his idea of) the Redpill is a sexual strategy. So I'm not sure why you are here. This isn't for people conforming for pussy.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
can you read dumbass?
TRP and MGTOW are the same coin, just different sides.
[–]aenigme1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Here you go dumbass: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3iv1it/mod_the_red_pill_is_sexual_strategy/
The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men...I don't care...if that makes us misogynists.
Even the top commentor cannot agree on what TRP fucking means:
"TRP is a male space, period."
/u/redpillschool/ banned me from /r/thereddpill/ when I questioned his fallacies in this post. I guess I hurt his fee-feez.
When you start deciding that you don't like certain content..ask yourself who you are trying to satisfy with such a stupid self-censoring.
He didn't like my "content", so he censored me. What a fucking dolt.
The Redpill is supposed to be a euphemism for "have you seen the light". Not "how much pussy can you get". But /u/redpillschool/ doesn't know the difference between a forum and an idea.
You are on the wrong side of the wrong fucking coin. If you yearn for more pussy, GTFO of /r/mgtow/ and go to /r/pua/.
[–]aenigme0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
were...not "are"
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
so these women are Alphas?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
No. Women getting sex is not Alpha. Women getting commitment is.
[–]Hashiramawoodstyle0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I like what you said. Never thought about it
[–]10J18R1A0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Men withhold relationships, women withhold sex. Both for roughly the same reasons.
The catch is cat string theory. The guy will continue fucking you. But if the woman gets to a place where you've gotten into a relationship with her, her game is over. Now she's no longer interested out she gets the slightest whiff of comfort with you.
Abundance and dread, my friends
[–]DarkestJ9 points10 points11 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, this is common knowledge. You'll hear the typical "he's just a friend" from the bitch's mouth, but everybody knows that's the fallback for when the first stringer fucks up or loses resources.
Girl I work with is in an LTR, about to move in with the poor cuck, and presently fucking another dude. She's said in black and white aloud he's next in line if things don't work out with the cuck, which they obviously won't. The utter insanity of females never ceases to amaze me.
[–][deleted] 11 points12 points13 points 10 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
I love this sub but some of the posts on here are ridiculous. Its like one big circle jerk of women hate just to make yourself feel better about being MGTOW. Get off the fucking computer, follow your dreams/aspirations, don't get romantically involved with toxic women and live your fucking life. For the most part I lurk on this sub and /r/MensRights but I feel something needs to be said. How about a post about backpacking Europe, moving to NYC from a small town, or surviving in the wilderness on your own for a month. The lack of meaningful and positive content and the ever-growing circle jerk of women/relationship bashing is really driving me away from these subs.
[–]Lesninore14 points15 points16 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This complaint comes up all the time, both in TRP, and MGTOW.
The end of the story is everybody who finds TRP or MGTOW, will go through an anger phase, some will grow out of it, some will stay there, but the anger transition is a very big and integral part of digesting the red pill, you can complain about the hate, but it's simply a natural response when you are a victim of fraud, everyone is naturally pissed when they're lied to.
However, both MGTOW's and TRP needs to learn how to grow out of the anger phase, but it's also true that some will stay there for a very long time. Furthermore there will always be newbies who are currently going trough the transition, meaning that the anger and hate will always be present in these communities.
MGTOW and TRP are not happy places, we deal with a world full of ugly truths that has been been packaged inside of a happy little lie, which tends to make people very angry, best we can do is encourage in moving past the anger phase.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I would say that learning the truth and being accepting of it at a deep level evolves you past the anger phase and moves you into learning how to be happy in a world that can be cruel and dark. MGTOW I believe shows men that they don't need women to be happy. And ultimately who cares if they have a backup man?
[–]dfaer59 points10 points11 points 10 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
We have the right to hate whomever we want, for whatever reason. You are not the moral policeman of /r/MGTOW.
How about a post about backpacking Europe, moving to NYC from a small town, or surviving in the wilderness on your own for a month.
If you want to see more content like this, post it yourself.
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
This sub is the only place where men can bitch about society and women and support each other.
And bitching about society/women will help how? Need to blow off some steam? Go hit the gym! Go spend 30 minutes hitting a heavy bag! Go for a run! Then sit down, take a breath, and get your life together. Bitching whining about unfair shit makes us no different than women and children. If you have such a problem with society being unfair towards men (which it is, im not debating that) go become a fucking divorce lawyer for men. Shit, become a fucking politician and go try to restore some balance to the judicial system! I love the idea of this community but I do not love this community and I can't support the shit show going on here.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The guy who founded /r/brohan had the same rhetoric. Too bad it didn't take off(yet, I hope).
This "shit show community" is the medium needed for unified anonymous communication between men. For some it is their only venue for answers. Yes some posts will suck. That's part of the soup.
[–]MuscleCarz3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I love this sub but some of the posts on here are ridiculous.
So ignore the ridiculous posts and move on.
Get off the fucking computer, follow your dreams/aspirations, don't get romantically involved with toxic women and live your fucking life.
Contradiction defined: Someone getting on the computer, then bitching about others bitching on the computer.
The lack of meaningful and positive content and the ever-growing circle jerk of women/relationship bashing is really driving me away from these subs.
Again, contradiction: The first for words..."I love this sub." But then say "lack of meaningful and positive content." Just what is it that you "love?"
IMO someone venting unbridled anger--as predictably occurring as it is here--can often be seen as a positive breakthrough from years of self-denial...a "waking up" if you will. Being waken-up doesn't always tickle, especially when it lays bare the bulls**t you've endured at your expense.
Anger is a very important phase of discovery, especially when your constantly bombarded from every angle to swallow whole lies created to drive men to throw themselves under the bus.
A man comes here cause he's curious?
I say, "Welcome, Brother..."
A man comes here because he's angry?
A man comes here to discuss his views on living MGTOW?
I say, welcome Brother, because I've been all three...
(and P.S., I still sometimes get angry and vent, just not as much).
[–]redchords2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
I feel you man. The posts full of blind hate are useless to me, but the posts that are well thought out make this place worth it when compared to the other manosphere groups.
It seems that men's rights guys have the right motivations but just can't grasp that society isn't built for men like it is for women. The only time society really cares about a man is when he's wealthy/has a lot to offer women.
The redpill guys are obsessed with understanding women so that they can get their dicks wet. I disagree with their outlook because they are basically looking to attract the most basic, vapid (but hot) women (and I don't want that) and I can get laid without being mean to women anyways. Their sidebar is dope but most of the content there is kind of useless to me.
Mgtow seems to be the only objective community in the manosphere. The men here understand the way society seeks to use them and have lost interest in pursuing women romantically, leaving them with clearer heads to accurately assess women's predictable collective behaviors. Yes some come to vent, and that's cool, but the thinking guys like Barbarossa, Paul Proteus and others really give this place value. Other guys just want to vent, and although it's not my favorite, that's fine too...it does have its place. You gotta take the good with the bad sometimes.
Edit: spelling
[–]MuscleCarz0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bingo! Upvoted.
[–]IwillDieForMetal0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
LISTEN TO MANOWAR
This right here is what made me write this.
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Real talk
[–]Natsume21-1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Personally, I agree with you.
But it's a safe place for frustrated men to vent. For backpacking and other interests, try r/hitchhiking. I'm on there.
[–]BrunoOh-2 points-1 points0 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
For a place called men going their own way, there's not really that much about actually "going" somewhere.
[–]dfaer57 points8 points9 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How was this data obtained? An anonymous survey?
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
1 out of 5 admitted backup man was a friend of their partner
I wouldn't consider these men to be friends.
[–]oldredder3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You wouldn't be told
[–]Lesninore4 points5 points6 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In other news, skydivers have backup parachutes to save them in case the first parachute fails.
[–]RationalistFaith11 point2 points3 points 10 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
I would rather downgrade them from LTR to plate status though
[–]solarbang1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Backup men is basicly like a spare tire for a relationship. AKA friend zoned dude.
[–]Natsume210 points1 point2 points 10 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
That 50 percent statistic seems overexaggerated. You really think that many guys are okay with being cucked?
[–]ju877 points8 points9 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think aware, but not aware as the backup man.
[–]Muddpup640 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Is it bad I've been one of the back-up men? Lol
[–]MuscleCarz7 points8 points9 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I was being "groomed" to be one once in College. She basically asked me if I wanted to "get together" with her on a "date" and I declined, telling her I wouldn't cause she was still with her boyfriend.
She gave me a surprised look, like she couldn't believe I'd not jump at the chance to get into her panties...
She broke up with her boyfriend a little while later and we dated, but we both knew it wouldn't go anywhere serious because of her cheating nature.
Funny thing is, after we broke up, she sent me a Xmas card that said at the bottom, "P.S., Never lose you're integrity." I never forgot that.
[–]ELITEJoeFlacco0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Did it actually say "you're", or did you just make a typo?
[–]Natsume211 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
dude, i've fucked married women
This guy fucks.
[–]me_and_batman0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Having been on both sides of this coin before, this is why it's best not to take relationships seriously (or just avoid them entirely).
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