After publishing my last essay on Monday, I was somewhat struggling with my draft folder, while I have somewhat of a backlog of articles I want to publish, I couldn't really find that flow state that I need in order to write on the level I want to write. However, luckily one of my followers retweeted this article entitled "7 Important Things To Know Before Dating an Alpha Female", that in addition to making me laugh a little, also offered ample opportunity to expand on my Cluster-B Series. Because the source article has more red flags than a Soviet era military parade.

First off, if you are writing an article on women who are difficult to deal with, you may not want to use a graphic that depicts a woman who has been diagnosed with an Axis-2 personality disorder, more specifically borderline personality disorder. She may as well have used the famous graphic of Marilyn Monroe (another borderline) with the Cluster-B favorite quote "If you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best". Secondly, you may want to avoid structuring your sales pitch like an ad for a haunted, broken down house in the boonies.

However, women as the marketing sex, on top of their inherent ability for solipsism and rationalization, is what inspired the realtor to outline the broken down house with no water as a "quaint and charming fixer-upper", or the house with blood on the floor and a history of murders being committed there as "A unique space with an exiting history".

So, lets go through the "7 Important Things" in order to identify the crazy contained within and utilize the female sexual strategies to identify the category of sexual strategy that this woman is using.

She Will Challenge You

Being challenged is one of those things that men and women seem to have a different definition for, as the author outlines:

*"Not only will she challenge you, but she probably won’t forfeit too easily; she will be persistent and insistent. She will debate with you over anything from de Blasio’s new policy, to the actual color of a tennis ball (green? or yellow?), and she expects to win. Some advice: challenge her back."*

To most men, this will not challenge their intellect, or their horizons, so much as their patience. It has long been documented that women talk more than men and this correlates over with a higher desire to discuss everything. For a man a challenge requires an obstacle to overcome, points on a board, a finish line to cross and progression to be made. A debate on whether tennis balls are green or yellow, is unlikely to be a productive one. This is ignoring that female solipsism makes any discussion with a woman centered on her individual perceptions and experiences, not on the external facts that men prefer to utilize in order to ensure productive discourse.

Men can often be found debating interpretations of facts, while agreeing on the underlying facts. Whereas women invent their own facts. In reality, this is a way of stating that she will constantly and brutally shit test you at any given moment and fight you every step of the way for frame control.

She Don’t Need a Man To Make it Happen

This is the war cry of the "Strong, Independent Woman" which in reality translates into "I don't need no man, now that I have the government", the irony is that the "empowerment of women" happened through their emancipation from men in the singular, to their new dependency on men in the plural. Where a woman used to be dependent on a father or a husband, she is now dependent on every man in a nation through government programs and benefits. Where she would depend on the men in her family to protect her, she now has a police force ready to take her word for it in domestic abuse cases.

A woman who makes it happen, is a woman that will need a partner to act as a mixture of father and mother, restricting her from starting things that she cannot finish and cleaning up her messes when she goes off the deep end.

She Will be Straight-up with You

This is another one of those things men and women have a different definition of, a man being straight up with you means he will tell you the truth when you need to hear it. A woman being straight-up with you means that she will read you the riot-act over any injustice, real or perceived, minor or major, in public or private, whenever she feels like it. This is a continuation of point one, the constant battling for frame control through shit-testing where you have to be on your toes every moment of the day. What makes a borderline a borderline is that unlike most women who tend to dial back the shit-testing after the initial tests, everything a borderline does is a shit test. This is in part why borderlines are often attracted to narcissistic or psychopathic males, as these men are often impervious to shit testing.

She’s a Do-er, Not a Talk-er

When the author writes:

*Alpha’s take action, so if she says she’s gonna do something – you bet your ass, she’s gonna do it. She probably expects the same in return: if you say you’re gonna do something, you sure as hell better follow through. And if ya don’t, she will…so don’t miss the boat, Mister. Hop on!*

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