Like the title says. I'm not really interested in getting into a relationship in which she has the orbiters contacting her, wants to hang out one on one with them etc.

I've been seeing someone lately, she has a couple of what I can tell appear to be very long term orbiters, both fairly unattractive men. She has lots of female friends too, the guys seem to orbit around several women in that group.

At arms length, I don't care. But I don't want them thinking they can still come over to her house to hang out and call all of the time when we're in a relationship.

Is there any point trying to set expectations with that sort of thing? Or do you have to take it or leave it?