Hello! Me and my ltr have been together for almost 2 years now and i've kept frame and i've had total control of the relationship, she has been calling me atleast once a day and always wants to hangout. But it changed in ONE day when i was out drinking and she texted me and i didnt answer for 2 days, ever since(a week) she has not been calling like she always have and she dont want to hang out as much and generally dont care about much involving me anymore, also we have had sex like one time the entire week.
Keep in mind that this is NOT a shit test, im 100% on that.She opened up today and said that she feels lost in our relationship and don't know how she feels about me but she still says she loves me. I've failed multiple times to comfort her, i think that i've pushed her away to far, i've always answered texts 2-3 hours later minimum.
My question is, did i not give enough comfort? And is it possible to save the relationship? Is it too late too give comfort?
Thanks in advance and sorry for the bad text!
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Yes, but this is because women aren’t willing to break up until they have another option.
Women look for other options when you become weak as a man and fail in your duties.
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Then that is by definition a low quality woman you should have never been dating in the first place
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No, you vet low quality women out. The signs of a likely cheater are obvious.
You’re supposed to vet for 6-12 months before even considering an LTR.
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