So the relationship that I seek is a relationship where I still provide for my family (Have a job, be the man of the household, protect my family, etc) but when it comes to my wife, have her be the one in charge romantically (I.E giving me kisses, giving me hugs, cuddle me, and take the lead in whatever romantic things we do to melt me with love.) Kinda like gentle femdom, but without the woman being in control of everything, (Still submitting from time to time, but most of the time being in charge in our romance) is this idea wrong? Is it a perversion of God's good word? and if so, what is a good relationship in Christ? I'm curious sense I don't usually like the idea of being completely dominant, but I want to still hold true to the values that the Lord above wants me to have in a relationship. Please be completely honest and don't hold anything back about this. A child needs to learn the path which is wrong in order to move past it.