Assuming she is not a bodybuilder that lifts at the gym everyday and doesn’t have crazy proportions, (average waist, bra size, hips, and butt) what BMI are most men attracted to? A BMI of 10 or 30 objectively won’t look healthy on anyone at all. I am talking healthy weight, give or take a few pounds. Do men often prefer a lower BMI around 18 or 19, or are they also attracted to a plumper healthy BMI of 23/24? Men don’t get shamed even close as women do for their weight, men feel more insecure about their height which is something they can’t change.