Guys jerk off in front of me on public transport and cause of anxiety I don't know what to do.

2020-05-11T15:20:52+00:00

This has nothing to do with you. Those people saying you should feel flattered are totally insane. This is just something that creepy people do in NY. The next time it happens, get up and move, as discreetly as possible.

Firbolgar · 2020-05-11T15:52:23+00:00

Be very very careful. NYC has some strange laws about carrying weapons. Make sure you do your research on the current laws and regulations.

Other than that, try to not enter subway cars that are either empty or dont have a favorable creepy:normal person ratio. This is solid advice for anyone I feel.

Derpy7664 · 2020-05-11T15:32:12+00:00

Aww you all have been super helpful and Kind so thank you from the bottom of my heart cause I honestly in the situation my brain freezes and I get soo scared so hopefully I can remember your advice if this happens again which I hope it doesnt

Derpy7664 · 2020-05-11T15:10:25+00:00

A rapist could easily disarm you and use the knife against you. Also, odds are that if you try to defend yourself with it, you could accidentally kill the assaulter and get in trouble because of that. Therefore, if I were you, I'd replace the whistle with a can of pepper spray. It's easier to use and, though less deadly than a blade, can still easily help you defend yourself. I'd also recommend taking a self defense class, in case one of these degenerates tries to go a step further.

EGOtyst · 2020-05-11T20:50:15+00:00

Nothing about it is flattery. Dudes are deranged and assholes.

Get up and move. Report it to the police and/or the driver.

If there are a lot of people, holler at him and Ask him WTF he is doing jerking off on the fucking bus?!

PrincessKek · 2020-05-11T15:22:06+00:00

Tbh this is shit we deal with and this is what feminists should be angry about. Not man spreading.

I'm truly sorry this happened to you, hun.

Hammocknapping · 2020-05-11T15:07:28+00:00

This is just something that happens in NYC (and probably other large cities too). I’ve only visited a hand full of time and I’ve seen weird shit like this. I also know from friends that live there that a lot of people have a weird jacking off in public story.

Unfortunately, some people are mentally ill and this is something they do.

You can always report them or get off and switch cars or wait for the next train or bus.

heyyy-kiddo · 2020-05-16T22:07:24+00:00

They are crack heads in general,no? I've seen a few people with missing screws too.

Anyway ,dangerous people are everywhere.You should get off and tell the driver. Probably best way is to call the police ,but I doubt they will catch them before they leave. It's worth trying. Also ,if possible,see if you have anyone else that can go to work with you in the same direction.Doesn't matter who as long as they are reliable.(most men and women are when it comes to things like those,or I like to believe this).

Whisper · 2020-05-11T18:37:00+00:00

Whenever you have a problem, always find the part that's your fault. Even if 99% of it isn't. Because the part that's your fault is the part you can fix.

I live in NYC

There's the part that's your fault. You live in a bad place, full of bad people, all packed together at a density human beings are not evolved to tolerate.

The reason you are running into so many fucked up broken people who do fucked up broken people shit is that you have chosen to live near them.

There is no healthy way to live with an abusive spouse. There is no healthy way to live next to a toxic waste dump. There is no healthy way to swim in the sewer.

And there is no healthy way to live in New York City.

But Whiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiisper, maybe she has no choice! Maybe her career or lifestyle require her to live there!

That's a choice right there. There are other careers. There are other lifestyles. No one HAS to live like an insect in a concrete hive, surrounded by the worst humanity has to offer.

There is no advice I can give you that will allow you to stand in a fire and not burn. There is no advice I can give you that will allow you to drink poison and not be sick.

Title	Guys jerk off in front of me on public transport and cause of anxiety I don't know what to do.
Author	Derpy7664
Upvotes	11
Comments	17
Date	May 11, 2020 2:51 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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