We have been together 8 years, have two kids (6 and 3), share house, finances, everything. Basically no difference between our situation and being married, except the formality.

Sex went down the drain after kids. It took finding Red Pill for me to realize that it was my own doing - victim puking all the time, deering, not stfu, and on and on. I’m making big strides in all these areas, and the early returns have been unbelievable. She’s gone from being uninterested, throwing me starfish scraps, and no bjs TO telling me how horny she is, blowing me often, telling me to do what I want, being crazy wet, etc etc. There has been an unmistakable direct correlation between this and my new strategies of being a man.

Would marrying help, hurt or be of no difference to my recent changes and the results? She has brought it up lately. I have no feelings about it (just a paper to me) other than fact that I need to ensure it keeps my momentum on track.

Advice and thoughts would be very appreciated