Can there be too much dread?

Fabulous-Craft · 2020-05-15T14:13:54+00:00

Yes.

Sidebar: 12 levels of dread

The gist is, as long as you are getting what you want, there is no reason to keep ramping up the dread.

RedSkeller · 2020-05-15T14:28:32+00:00

Yes, you can easily come off as an unemphatic douche, before some edgelord comes in here saying "but muh dude I'm a dark triad dread lord" - you need to work in some comfort here and there.

TheGirlGetter9000 · 2020-05-15T14:43:03+00:00

Yes. I've definitely over-dreaded on accident.

It's hard to see you're doing it, honestly. For some guys, it's tough when most advice you see is basically "be more alpha/aloof" but really your problem is you need to tone it down a little. That definitely happens.

spartan_samurai · 2020-05-15T15:58:57+00:00

You need to balance comfort and dread.

Too much of any one of these is bad for your relationship.

Title	Can there be too much dread?
Author	swallowthisthrowaway
Upvotes	8
Comments	9
Date	May 15, 2020 2:11 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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