I made a comment on a post in r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen, and it was received quite favorably, garnering roughly 250 votes, and some of the mods suggested that I make a post in this subreddit, expanding on the comment that I made. I'm going to take that advice and I'm going to try my best to expand on the comment I wrote.

In 2020, being a single man in America is more difficult than it's been most likely ever. Up until the 1970s, both men and women were raised in traditional environments, where they were taught what their roles would be as adults. Most American children would attend church on Sundays, and many went to Catholic schools. Fathers and mothers taught their sons and daughters how to be good husbands and wives. From childhood to young adulthood, they were taught the beauty of starting families. This path was rarely deviated from. In fact, instances of single adults were very rare. If a man or woman was in their late 20s and unmarried, it would be widely assumed that something was wrong with this person. Men and women got together, got married, and started families. This fulfilled both husbands and wives with joy and happiness. The love of one's marriage combined with the love of their kids was so beautiful that nothing could be compared.

Today, in 2020 the sacred love of a marriage and a family has been left behind. Our society has done a complete 180. Now a woman and a man getting together, getting married, and starting a family is a rare path to take. A lot of people today outright avoid this path, and even look down on it. If you suggest that we are headed in the wrong direction, you will be labeled a sexist and a misogynist.

Today women reject doing what biologically makes them feel so fulfilled and replace it with Netflix and Indian take out. They replace the lovely marital vows with having a pet dog that was unnaturally and cruelly bred to look like a teddy bear. Today, these unnatural dogs are the emotional crutches of unfulfilled obese American women who live like slobs and have no morals or self respect. They will lie and say that they are completely happy, but this is obviously their best way to cope. Oftentimes, these abominations of women don't realize how wrong they were about life until their mid 30s. They feel unhappy, but society continues to tell them that if they had gotten married and had children, they would be more unhappy and they already are. Their natural instinct tells them that they should have gone the traditional way. Our anti-western society is so rejecting of this premise that they are brainwashed to think otherwise.

The American woman of 2020 neglects all basic human upkeep. She is 23 years old and upon looking at her, you'll notice that her hair is an unnatural lime green. If you were to see pictures of this poor woman five years ago, her hair would look much more vibrant and different. Years ago, her hair was voluminous, and so long that is went down past her behind. Today, it rests just past her ears. This is not a personal hairstyle choice that she's made. This is as far as her hair will grow because of the damage she's done by dying it dozens of times.

If you took it upon yourself to converse with this woman, you'll learn that she indulges in every vice minus shooting heroin in her veins. She drinks alcohol, smoke cigarettes, has many piercings, most of her body is covered in tattoos, and she consumes fast food daily. These poor lifestyle choices have taken a toll on her physical beauty. Instead of taking personal accountability and making self improvements, she doubles down on her destructive personal choices. She uses Facebook pages, internet memes, and public figures who enable the lifestyle she has chosen. She will use talking points from these outlets to justify the bad choices she's made. After all, avoiding a painful reality is much easier than facing it. If she had to admit that her lifestyle was detrimental, that would be too challenging for her. She would be forced to make life changes. So instead, she's bitter. She stops showering. Grows body hair. Doesn't wear makeup. Goes from being overweight to being morbidly obese. This kind of woman who has neglected her personal beauty will still frequent dating sites. She is told that someone will love her how she is. If a man tries to tell her that no one wants to date a woman who has a receding hairline, is morbidly obese, and has body hair, then he's just a misogynist. He shouldn't be listened to. Of course, there's a man out there dying to be with a woman who is 5"2, weighs 290 lbs, has very thin lime green hair, and can shovel down more food in one sitting than him. Yes, he's out there. She just has to be patient. And better yet, she wants her man to be 6'5, make six figures, have a college education, have an already paid for house, no debt, and be handsome like Brad Pitt. Meanwhile she has none of the qualities she expects her match to have. She barely has a job. She works part-time at McDonalds, just just enough to pay for her very poor living situation in which she shares a two-bedroom apartment with four other similar women. At this point she's now 27 and looks like a worn-out 43 year old.

She believes a man should accept her for who she is. But the only problem is that SHE doesn't accept who she is. On her dating profile, there are seven pictures of her. Every single picture has a Snapchat filter to cover up her sad reality of self neglect and poor choices. There are some pictures of her as a Disney princess, some pictures of her as a cute squirrel. She is in such denial that she isn't thinking clearly. It doesn't occur to her that at some point, she can't hide behind the filter of a Disney Princess. She cannot live vicariously through her past pictures, when she was 60 pounds lighter. If she wants to be that skinny, she needs to put in the work to get skinnier. But no one in her life circle tells her this, so she continues to live a lie. She's so scared to face who she's become, that her judgement is cloudy. Dozens and dozens of dates with men ensue. The same patterns continue. The man is always nice to her online, and then when the date comes, he's such a jerk to her. "It must be the patriarchy" she thinks. The men who reject her are too polite or too afraid to tell her that she does not meet their standards. That her pictures are very misleading. If one brave man finally decides to tell her how unappealing she is, immediately she will go to her female friends for validation. Her friends will tell her how wrong that one man was, and this vicious cycle continues. She will never find love and happiness this way.

Every so often, a man that she deems attractive will have casual sex with her maybe once or twice or three times, and then disappear completely from her life never to talk to her again. These shallow sexual encounters with men she deems attractive makes her believe that there is some hope that a tall dark and handsome man will be with her one day. She is too diluted to understand that even the most attractive of men get horny and drunk and decide to fuck a wild boar out of sheer laziness. Delusion leaves this woman unable to accept that reality. These men give her an unjustified self-confidence and entitlement. This really just makes her more of an ugly human being. Because in addition to being ugly, nasty, and physically unlovable, her personality is ugly too. She is now 5'2, 350 lbs, 35 years old and is acting like a 24 year old Jennifer Lopez. She has the audacity to call a slightly chubby man hideously unattractive, and below her standards. She will say things to him with the intent to be cruel, but when someone does the same to her, she will cry her little eyes out. She has an ugly heart. Everything about her is ugly on the inside and out.

Self-respecting American men are tired of this. More and more men are giving up on what is the American woman of 2020. We are constantly exploring other options. More and more men are going to other countries with more traditional cultures to find suitable women. Women in America have become undatable, unlovable, unfuckable, emotionally damaged, have personality disorders, and live unhealthy lifestyles. They have a gigantic price to pay for it. Often times, when an American man finds a suitable woman in another country, the ugly American woman will find herself bitter and jealous. She will accuse men who go to different countries to find better women of being misogynist. She will accuse him of being a sexual predator, of simply wanting a more submissive woman.

Sorry, that's not true. Nope.

We don't need a woman who is submissive, or who bows to our every whim. We need a woman who is actually lady-like and not more manly than us. We need a woman who takes care of her body, her skin, and her hair, realizes that her beauty is her biggest asset, and that her second biggest asset is how good of a mother she can be.

That kind of woman is extinct in America.

And that is why we, American men, have given up on the abomination that is the modern American woman. She is too far gone and we are now looking at all other options.