Newb here. So my wife doesn’t try very hard to “dress up” and I realize that’s because I need to raise my SMV. Now that my gym opened up I can stop doing bodyweight exercises and actually hit the gym. Been going every morning at 5:30 when testosterone is highest (presumably).

Anyway, there are certain things (typically slutty clothing) that every guy wants to see his wife in. One particular item I have expressed interest in. She has always acted like people would judge her for attracting attention to herself with her wardrobe.

Her hot sister came to visit us recently and I finally just “got” teasing. Bitches love to be teased, and it finally just clicked for me, how to do it. So I’m teasing the hot sister and teasing the wife, too. Now when the sister goes home, the wife suddenly decides she wants to buy the item I had previously expressed interest in. Textbook stuff, right? She’s been responding to my teasing texts all day, instead of responding hours later. She even said she wanted to buy some other typically slutty clothing. So great, she is valuing my attention more since I’m making her feel like a giddy schoolgirl.

Only problem is that she said she wants to go buy this stuff herself. As in, alone, doesn’t want me there when she’s picking stuff out. I don’t want her to spend my money on something I don’t like, she might say she’ll buy one thing but then turn around and buy something I find unattractive instead. I’m confused why she wouldn’t want my approval in the moment of purchase, since that is what she is seeking by buying this stuff in the first place.

Shouldn’t bitches want you to go with them... give them validation when they pick something off the rack... why would they risk disappointing you and wasting all that time/money? Maybe just so it can be... a surprise? Any thoughts are welcome, this just doesn’t register as normal female validation-seeking behavior.