Hi,

I need some advise please. I have been seeing this girl for last 3 months and we have built a really great connection with a too much in common. She has great future, smart, intelligent and comes from good family. She is potentially a LTR.

However, she was on holiday for 2 weeks and we spoke daily during the first week. I was out one night with another girl and didn’t get in touch all day. She tried phoning me few times and I ignored it, then in evening she got pissed and said that I’m not interested how her days fly by etc and tried calling me again. I said to her let’s catch up tomorrow as I wanted to hit the bed. She said she won’t be catching up tomorrow and the conversation ended. 7 days went by with my ego not replying or getting in touch with her, then on last day before she left I decided to text her. She told me that on the night she was calling me she was sexually abused on the street... this made me feel extremely fucked and bad that I didn’t take the call.

I’ve met her couple times since she came back and she is hurt, upset and I can see our relationship has went down big time. It was a strange couple fucks from both sides the first time after her holiday to say the least. It’s not the same feeling from her side and feels like she’s been let down. I am trying to fix it, but it’s not happening and I don’t know why I did what I did. I guess I wanted to fuck around with other girls. She doesn’t accept my apologies and is afraid I would do the same thing again.

Now, I don’t know if I should still continue as she is butt hurt and should move on, or I am the fucking asshole and need to work on this. I really do like this girl in every way, and I’m out of ideas how to fix it. I even got her a fucking cactus and she didn’t accept it well lol.

What do you guys recommend? Any ideas are good please