Are girls too sensitive or am I too much of an asshole ?

aegeaorgnqergerh · 2020-05-22T01:28:23+00:00

As someone else said, it depends on the context, also depends how good looking you are.

Reading random crap on here is bound to get people in trouble. A lot of this "red pill" stuff is good philosophy that is just basic common sense, but there's also a lot of shit on here. Anything related to the whole PUA thing is dangerous bullshit, and it's no wonder you pissed her off.

You don't give enough detail or context, but I worry you're an incel and/or have other issues (such as social problems, not being good looking, etc) and are relying on the "red pill" thing for answers that will just make things worse.

amwfhunter · 2020-05-22T01:00:07+00:00

It depends on how genuine your comment is. Because if you're exaggerating your assholeness you're just a try hard. And it also depends on how good looking you are.

axiscontra · 2020-05-22T01:54:55+00:00

sound like an asshole be nice to women. Build them up don't neg them haha. Def set strong boundaries leaving after 15 minutes of no communication isnt an asshole its setting boundaries. Treat people how you would like to be treated. If you need to make a woman to feel insecure to want you increase your value instead.

skyrunner22 · 2020-05-22T03:13:12+00:00

If she replied back, its good. If she was truly offended she would of just blocked you. It was a shit test to see if you were a beta bitch to get back to put her in pedestal like everyone else and allow her to control the frame. Also if you are going to be a true asshole, you dont care if she reacts either way

Also did she use the word qualify? Not really something people use in everyday language or did you translate to rp language for post, just curious.

jojojijo333 · 2020-05-22T05:49:53+00:00

It's like sarcasm, it's a condiment not the main course

IXseed · 2020-05-22T06:02:05+00:00

You're already a bit of an "asshole". You just hide it around women. As a man, when you stand on your shit you're gonna come off as an asshole.

Also Todd V talks about 80/20 normal/asshole. Think of it like normal is the meal and asshole is the seasoning. If you're all meal with no spice, the meal is bland. If you overseason it, that's bad too. The thing is every girl wants a different amount of seasoning.

shitpommesfrites · 2020-05-22T06:27:35+00:00

" I made a joke about it a couple times and they all passed by her but this last time .."

You shouldnt joke about someones looks or characteristics over and over again, even if it's a positive trait. Do it once and it is funny, two times is pushing it, when you hit the third time it gets perceived as bullying(no mather how good spirited). So yes, you were an asshole here.

GlowInTheDarkDonkey · 2020-05-22T10:35:12+00:00

You aren't being an asshole; You are being a socially uncalibrated tool.

rugged79 · 2020-05-22T01:53:08+00:00

I actually think that being an asshole saved me a lot of trouble though

Yup. Bitches that don't have their shit together don't need to be dating. And mentally, this bitch was a shitshow.

When women are young, they don't like to be called young because subconsciously, it's like saying "you're too young looking to be fuckable". Whether they know it or not, all women within the ages of 18-45 strive primarily to be looked at as "fuckable". It's generally their highest priority.

As Patrice O'Neal said, men strive to be "loveable" so even while we work on our physical fitness and other external attributes women find "fuckable", we still try to do things such as:

- grow a personality

- have a sense of humor

So in a sense, this chick was subconsciously annoyed that you were trying to have her "qualify" as "fuckable", when clearly Instagram and every thirsty dude at her job, school, social media, etc. says she's fuckable. And she was willing to sacrifice your viewing her as a "loveable" person to do it.

Title	Are girls too sensitive or am I too much of an asshole ?
Author	Alcatraz-12
Upvotes	2
Comments	30
Date	May 22, 2020 12:55 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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