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alphaonthecomeup · 2020-05-31T02:04:29+00:00

How to smash a girl who actually does have a boyfriend. I have a date with her on Monday....

alphaonthecomeup

May 31, 2020

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Title	How to
Author	alphaonthecomeup
Upvotes	1
Comments	33
Date	May 31, 2020 2:04 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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Your overthinking......

Step one......tell her your going to reserve a hotel room. This is a loud and clear message to her that you expect to be fucking.... If she agrees She is expecting it too... If she says no then she isn't down.

Once you two are in the room everything should take care of itself. Have a drink, put on some music or a movie and don't waste much time before making a move. The longer you wait the more awkward it will be. You should be using kino(touching) from the time you walk in the room. Make her bring something to table though....maybe the drinks. Done.

You are not there to romance her.....she is there to be your little slut. Treat her as such, or she won't respect you. Its likely the reason why she is willing to cheat in her weak beta boyfriend. She wants something assertive, someone sure of themselves, and more aggressive.

Beta bitch...."no pressure" energy will turn her off. Go for a kiss and spank her ass when you do. That pussy will get wetter than Niagra falls. Be the Alpha she is looking for.

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Facts you’re right bro, walks and food is how she can get her attention and then can just dip home without putting out. And yeah no bf vibes. What if I’ve taken her on “dates”’before, do you think that I’m 100p locked in as orbiter now, even though I smashed like once last year.

I’m 23 and she is 20.

Yeah I’m thinking about taking your advice and telling her I’m going to get the hotel room just so she knows what can happen. Instead of the hotel room being a surprise, I’ll be like I have a different surprise if anything which will just be the wine or the weed or whatever.

The plans are for tomorrow. Gonna text her later on today around like 5. So if she is down she can get herself ready for it.

I wanted to give the plausible deniability but I don’t really want to waste my money or time either. If she’s not down , then she’s not down.

I don’t have oneitis or anything for this girl just in case your wondering. I can easily just let this go and move forward.

[–]kclanton800 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

If you have smashed before you're not necessarily an orbiter..... But you are an orbiter if you're keeping in contact with her without having sex.

As the saying goes if she's not laying you she's playing you... Taking her on dates before probably wasn't a good thing... But you can change all that going forward. No more dates for this chick ever, and fuck giving her plausible deniability to make her feel better about herself.

Women spend their whole lives looking for men who will treat them like a dirty little slut. that's why you always get women who are alpha widows obsessing over that guy who gave no shits about them and fucked them silly. Every woman wants that at least once in their life. Be that guy! Don't offer her any surprises....offer her dick PERIOD. she might act all offended and indignant in the beginning but hold your ground. That's a shit test to see if you really have masculine frame.

You have to view yourself as the prize in the situation. You don't need to offer her anything special as an incentive. This is all where the abundance mindset comes in. Make sure you are always dealing with and talking to multiple women. Send you won't feel the need to do special things for any of them... And they will LOVE you for it.

Taking them on walks giving them surprises nice dates.... That's beta blue pill societal conditioning. Deep inside women cringe when men do that shit for them. They want a man with an attitude that says come get this dick and that's all. "I am the prize and you getting this dick is lucky for you not me".

Try and start embodying these behavior with this girl and see how she responds. I have used a lot of girls as an experimental girl just to try these things with and it works every time. The less you care about her the more she will be into you. In between seeing her keep communication to a minimum.... Text her only to set up seeing her. Since she has a boyfriend she will appreciate this big-time. It shows you're mature enough to understand how to navigate the situation. Honestly though it's essential for all women. You must give them space to chase you...

Hope this helps

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