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How do you activate her inner slut?

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June 7, 2020

I'm sure all women would want an attractive man to go dirty on them, no matter how prude they are of how conservative their culture is.

I'm right now raising my SMV in all possible areas - fitness, style etc and got my teeth fixed and I'm getting IOIs basically stares and smiles from random girls walking on the street.

What kind of game do you need to have to be very sexual in nature without being creepy and in a way that a girl would love? I'm watching RSD Tyler videos for inspiration, but are there any good posts here about how to being assertively sexual with chicks?


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Title How do you activate her inner slut?
Author suddenlyChad
Upvotes 109
Comments 67
Date 07 June 2020 07:32 PM UTC (8 months ago)
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[–]jessiesosa92151 points152 points  (16 children) | Copy

By being as high SMV as possible and being 100% ok and straightforward about your sexual intentions with her. At least that’s what helped me. Look your fucking best, feel fucking great and don’t hide your dick (metaphorically).

Also I noticed from many past plates that when other girls check you out or it’s just clear as water that you are preselected, that competition anxiety will get them to be more in touch with the “slut” in her. So as Rolli would say, “be a man other men want to be like and other want to fuck” and that should help

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev21 points22 points  (4 children) | Copy

straightforward about your sexual intentions with her.

^ Truth.

This week, a girl in my rotation sent a head shot - she's a lovely girl and had been able to get to a salon finally after quarantine.

Me: "WOW. The only way your face could look better is if my balls were in your mouth."

Her: "giggle"

Another thing I do with girls who want to see my place but I haven't fucked yet - particularly if they thing they are going to dangle the pussy in front of me - is to tell them that, "If you come to my place, I am going to fuck you." They isolate, I escalate. I can't recall a time where that I haven't banged a girl who came to my place under those circumstances.

I chatted up a girl some time ago - 5'11, feminine - and dropped my "I know your secret" line (that she was or wanted to be submissive at sex, which at 5'11" is basically a LOCK). She insisted she was dominant, but I plowed through that shit and told her about how I was going to tie her up the first time we fucked, and basically every time thereafter.

Her: "That sounds like something I'd really like. Why do I say the opposite of what I mean?"

Me: "You're testing me to see if I'm 'worthy' of giving your pussy to - which we have clearly established that I am."

Her: Fuck! How do you know this stuff?"

The truth can be a powerful weapon.



-Treat'em rough to get the muff.

[–]E9er0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

i put the plan b in the mcmuffin after that story. well holy fucks in a horse. this was better than harry potter. thanks for the story

[–]ThrowawayYAYAY20020 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Vas, great advice (as per).

But tell me, what's the correlation between height and being submissive/slutty?

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

what's the correlation between height and being submissive/slutty?

So the correlation is between height and submission. IME, the taller a girl is, the more likely she is to be submissive at sex. It starts at 5'7-5'8"; by 5'10" they crave it.

Source: I have been fucking longer than most dudes here have been alive.

[–]ThrowawayYAYAY20020 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks for the reply.

I've heard this before somewhere, and I can vouch for it first hand.

The nastiest slut (and she was a legit 9) was around 5'8. Unbelievably submissive, filthy and open minded. Me and my partner at the time had plenty of fun with her :-)

And a friend introduced me to another woman that was 6'0, but she had a massive reputation for being a hoe. So the height thing checks out, just wondering what the science was behind it.

[–]St31nway10 points11 points  (9 children) | Copy

I’m either just bad at revealing my intentions or the girls are not into me. What’s the best way to go about revealing intentions without seeming like a caveman?

[–]E9er38 points39 points  (0 children) | Copy

requote: don’t hide your dick (metaphorically). always show your intent. otherwise you’re gonna make a friend instead. remember you won’t get 100% with every girl. so focus on the ones who do enjoy your advances and fuck the rest. DO NOT BECOME OUTCOME DEPENDENT! flirt with her for the LULZ if she likes it cool. if not fuck her

[–]lpfield30 points31 points  (6 children) | Copy

You have to let out the inner caveman. Men and women have that basic human instinct and shit just clicks. If you think too much about it you’ll fuck it up

[–]poortrait1004 points5 points  (4 children) | Copy

Or you could read side bar

[–]DatRiggz1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]Danwphoto-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy

What is the side bar?

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Look at the desktop version of the site. To the right there will be a side bar with lots of articles that have been saved over the years. For some reason it is not always visible from the mobile site.

[–]Vicco_[🍰] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You have to swipe over your scteen from the right

[–]omkar-m1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Read books like what women women wants and how to give it to them, the rationale male, no more mr nice guy. You will get good ideas about how to assert yourself and be a dominant man from these books.

[–]coldestmichigan0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This. Works most of the time.

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen54 points55 points  (9 children) | Copy

She needs to know that you want her to.

Take the lead, tell her that you want her to be a dirty girl, be very passionate and reward her behaviour by showing her how much it turns you on, by i.e. moaning when she is gagging on your dick, etc.

Some also need some kind of comfort in the sense that she needs assurance that you don't think and feel lesser of her, because she behaves like a dirty whore.

Simply go and have a drink or something to eat after fucking her senseless, propose some activity besides sex.

Do not overdo this though. Ultimately for her it's about satisfying you. After all she wants to be a slut for you and not anybody else.

If she is some kind of club hoe, you won't need any of this though.

[–]L1amas16 points17 points  (4 children) | Copy

tell her to be a dirty girl

Here's the issue with giving out that advice: a lot of the beginner audience here will not understand that you have to set her in the right mood beforehand before saying shit like that.

People will read your advice and autistically just blurt out that phrase unprompted and without having built rapport beforehand.

The readers here need to know how to get to that point, and that is what OP is asking.

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Here's the issue with giving out that advice: a lot of the beginner audience here will not understand that you have to set her in the right mood beforehand before saying shit like that.

they'll find out

[–]WeddingCrasher911 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

The readers here need to know how to get to that point, and that is what OP is asking.

How do you get to that point with a girl?

[–]L1amas2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Building rapport is detailed in the sidebar. The sidebar explains it better than me or anyone here.

Best advice: read the sidebar and fucking practice. You're gunna fuck up and you're gunna look like an idiot until you learn to properly read situations, and that will only come with experience (in addition to the sidebar info). Seriously, the sidebar and practice answers pretty much 99% of every single question in this sub.

Also, learn to be witty. Learning quick-wittedness helps a ton.

[–]WeddingCrasher912 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Got it. Sidebarrr

[–]MrAnderzon3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

That moaning part idk why guys don’t do it. There’s some negative stigma behind it but one moans are part of that animalistic side we posses.

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Agree. It will absolutely turn them on as well.

Once I found out that sucking my dick gets them wetter than anything else, I transitioned away from being an avid pussy eater.

[–]MrAnderzon7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

I’m perplexed

Are you sucking your own dick or the girl is

[–]umizumiz14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

Be sexual for yourself, dickhead. It's time wasted trying to please others, please yourself and surround yourself by people who enjoy your company and want to be around you.

And just talk dirty to whoever you want to, if that's your thing then do it and report back what you figure out.

[–]xxx69harambe69xxx10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

use your blue eyed red dragon to activate her inner slut card pussy

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Ha! You activated my trap card, "Cockblock"! When you try to attack her pussy, you'll suddenly get interrupted by an annoying phone call from an oblivious friend, completely ruining the mood. I have this duel in the bag.

[–]fpuen5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

The key is to progress her naughty side. Most guys don't do this that well and so their experience stays vanilla and easily swappable.

My loose formula:

  1. Kissing/groping in public
  2. Quickie BJ in public or other forbidden area (library, church). I don't give time to finish, it's more getting them to do it
  3. Kinky sex involving wrist restraints, spanking, light(!) face slapping etc. Key here is to make them start to feel controlled
  4. Some sort of rite of passage into your possession. My personal favorite is, she's blowing me on her knees. I tell her not to move, go to her purse, get her phone, hand it to her and tell her to call a friend, ideally a boyfriend. Then make her keep sucking me during conversation.

If she does #4 with a boyfriend on the line, she's owned. You have full control of her sexually from there and any other side action she's getting won't measure up either.

[–]izzyinjurious2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fucking love TRP.

I've naturally done this from what I've learned and you posting this just confirms it. You just do shit just because, then someone confirms that is a thing? best feeling ever.

Except that last one, I have to try that with more plates, cause that is fucking beast.

[–]IXseed5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

The key to not being creepy is 2 steps. Be sexual with women who want you to be sexual with them and do it in a way that's socially calibrated.

[–]Nergaal0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

what are some not obvious examples of not socially calibrated attempts?

[–]IXseed0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That's the thing. If you have a fair amount of social skills it's gonna be obvious that you're not being socially calibrated. It's all about reading the room.

One I can think of is don't escalate with women who have been blowing you off/flaking if say you see them at work or at the gym. Even if you call afterwards. Dudes will get signs a girl isn't interested, gloss over them and then hit the girl up trying to get sexual. Not the move.

Also don't get sexual over the phone unless you've already had sex at least twice. You know how girls bitch about dick pics? It's not just the pic but the fact that no sexual tension has been done in person yet so it's just outta the blue. No calibration.

[–]throwitaway31459265420 points21 points  (10 children) | Copy

With prude and religious women you have to establish a connection and give her a feeling of trust. These women do not want to be slutty and do not want to think of them as sluts or sexually open even though we all are.

I met a woman at work who was from another country (very religious) and came to America in her 20s as a virgin. She married an American (some loser guy) and he’s the only man she had been with.

We were attracted to each other and just hung out as “friends” and over time we were comfortable with each other and I slowly started kissing her then fingering her and finally we started fucking. She told me she never felt that sex was any good until we met and since then it’s been amazing. She is now a slut and tells me how much of a slut she is with me. However she feels justified because to her she was not a slut and only became intimate with me because we had that connection and that was a good enough reason.

Her husband found out earlier this year and asked her to leave me but she refused so now they’re in an open marriage and I see her once a week and we do our thing.

Key is to go slowly and softly. Not like the other hoes that fuck after a few drinks.

[–]usedtimecapsule46 points47 points  (7 children) | Copy

The other guy is a huge simp wow. He should be ashamed to stay in that relationship. What a disgrace.

[–]throwitaway3145926547 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy

They’re staying for the kids.

[–]Nergaal9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

whose kids

[–]throwitaway3145926540 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

They’re his kids. He’s the only one she’s been with aside from me.

[–]E9er-5 points-4 points  (3 children) | Copy

nah. he’s probably spinning plates now too. he has this mail order bride as his main plate. steady sex while you chase others. keys to getting plates is be the first to dump don’t let her dump you! end things at the highlight moments and leave her wanting more and becomes your plate

[–]usedtimecapsule21 points22 points  (2 children) | Copy

I would break off the relationship then, no point in marriage if it’s not monogamous. It’s a disgrace to the traditional marriages and I’d be ashamed to be forced into it. Never in my life would I allow that to happen to me.

[–]Tousen714 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Agreed. That decision is clearly coming from scarcity but I guess some people need to learn the hard way. I'd watch out for him though. Seems like he could snap and kill both of them at any second.

[–]goldenpoopstain-5 points-4 points  (0 children) | Copy

That's your opinion and as previously stated, dude is a loser and has a steady supply of sex work this relationship. I've met a few different guys with mail order brides and they would take that deal in a heartbeat

[–]StormOfHoney5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

I had a similar experience with a 'traditional' christian woman. I'd honestly given up trying to bang her after a little while as there were no signs she was interested, but would still hang out with her and help her out with some jobs around her house. As time went on she said she felt comfortable around me and slowly things started happening.... some kissing and touching etc...

Eventually we went all the way one evening. She was timid and unadventurous, but I brought her to orgasm. She said that she'd only had sex with 2 guys before and they'd never made her feel "like that"... banged her three times that night (another thing she'd never done before). Interesting side note, the 2 long term partners before had never gone down on her!

She started coming over regularly after that and actually asked me to "teach" her things. I told her that I didn't want a relationship but I was happy to just have sex with her. In the time that followed I taught her every position and action I know and she mastered the art of the blowjob... so much so that she got to a point where all she wanted to do was suck my dick instead of fuck.

I definitely alpha-widowed her though. I encouraged her to find another guy who wants a relationship, she has twice now... and cheated on them both with me because she says they are "boring" in the bed.

[–]Wave94-3 points-2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dang.. winning

[–]DoubleConversation410 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

Be high SMV

Be masculine

Command her

Force her into submission

Be rough

[–]E9er10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

yeah. in public they say you’re aggressive if you talk shit. in private she BEGS you to choke her and slap that ass! they love the roughness!!!! the same girl that said i was an asshole later that day couldn’t get enough of me bitting her lip! she loved it

[–]mega_kook1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Do yourself a favor and stop watching RSD. If you must watch videos to get inspired, try Todd V.

[–]izzyinjurious0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

ehhhhh i'd stop watching RSD tyler, but i'd go torrent the natural by rsd max or the pimp by rsd julien. good luck finding both tho lol.

Todd v is good, but I just think it's too much verbal more than physical. When it should be a bit of both. Hence the natural.

[–]Endorsed ContributorNightwingTRP1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm watching RSD Tyler videos for inspiration

I suppose if your target is below average looking women then crack on.

Ultimately "activating the inner slut" is just be attractive, don't be unattractive.

[–]frat_boi_chad3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

I work as the hiring manager at bum niggas incorporated, you fit all of the qualifications apply now

[–]E9er0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

she wanted to ride the CC... not his fault someone else would. she a hoe

[–]DatRiggz0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–]throwaway265147584720 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

this is fucking hilarious

[–]OneTrueQ0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Be high smv and don’t be a fucking goober. Very simple. So simple that chad does not even think about it. Get to that point, wear your sexuality on your sleeve.

[–]Kabuki4310 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I can't really put it words right now but its usually goes something like this.

I don't need a relationship etc, i just want someone who shares same energy as me and not a starfish in bed.

Or if we already have something going on

Show me your wild side.

The key is to be non judgemental and sometimes coming off as a bigger slut/manwhore. It usually puts them in competition mode or curious as to what other women experienced with you.

[–]ObamaRunts0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It’s supposed to be natural when she’s really into you. There is nothing to activate if you already have the game, the looks, the smell, etc... Even the most conservative women are freaky for the right guy. You just have to drop your nuts.

[–]Meloxian0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You look on the back of the model, there should be a lever called “slut mode” flip it (for some of the newer models there is a button) and a parody of the song “sicko mode” will start playing - but it’ll be about her going into slut mode instead. Then she’ll lick your ass.

[–]MGTOW_BEASTMODE0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Environment and getting her in the mood.

[–]fretty5550 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Listen to trilogy by the weekend, partynexdoor by partynextdoor, and Wildheart by Miguel and pick up on the vibes. And then go watch white collar and study Neal Caffrey.

[–]GratificationDelayed-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

Start w yo fingaz

[–]z2a1-9-4 points-3 points  (1 child) | Copy

That's reserved for alpha Chad/Tyrone/Jose's, if you have to ask you are not there, good luck my friend...

[–]MikeLittner1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Plain facts

[–]Anonymous33369-2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy

two words Hank moody, Google it.

[–]spedoid0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

based californication poster

[–]AlanTheCow-2 points-1 points  (2 children) | Copy

im not good with the lingo, what does smv and ioi mean

[–]opper-hombre10 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Read the sidebar. The entire thing. It’ll take awhile but the information in there is valuable.

Smv = sexual market value ioi = indicators of interest

There’s a glossary at the beginning of the sidebar that explains all the terms

[–]morpheus777770 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

smv = sexual market value
ioi = indicator of interest

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