It really is when you get to the bottom of it.

You have to place yourself in shoes of these lvm. If their hunting ground isn't tinder, it's fb/ig, other dating sites, the club, the streets etc. Literally anywhere. They match with whoever, they add whoever, they message whoever, etc. It's best you be strict and not let too many in and don't message most or invite them into your life in the first place.

You have to be careful about the men that approach you. Not all men have YOUR best interests in mind, they have THEIR best interest in mind. Not all men that hit on you/approach you are even interested in you, some are just practicing game or they want to see how much they can get away with (aka take you to bed).

Especially with the type of guy I described above. Is a guy like that going to be loyal? Nope. He's going to have many options (yes, even if he's ugly. I've seen plenty of women fall for them). I started realizing that when I noticed the same 100 guys in my town mass friend requesting the women in my town. I can see it on mutual friends. It's all a numbers game to them, they indiscriminately add to up the chances of a response from SOMEONE. So long as it's a viable option.

So be picky. Don't fall for likes, while he's liking up your photos, he's liking up the next chicks pics too. And he's probably in her dms.

It's important to NEVER let a guy come in and out of your life, part of the manosphere (red pill) tactics are to string their "plates" along, to text them sparingly (keep their foot in the door) so that they get the opportunity to "use you" as they wish, on their terms, whenever they want. DO NOT ALLOW THIS!!! Remember- men do what benefits THEM. Not you!!!!!