I had a realization

AyemHerself · 2020-03-17T17:33:30+00:00

You are not stuck being a LVW. There's bound to be something you can do for yourself.

Most 20 somethings suck at dating. They don't want real love, they want to play. If you're not getting what some guy gave his first girlfriend, that's a good thing.

Find out what you're lacking in life and make a plan to fix that. "A man" is not a valid answer.

WorkingOnMyself01 · 2020-03-17T17:32:16+00:00

If you've realized you aren't HV why not use that knowledge to work on yourself?

When it comes to how I expect others to treat me I am high value, I have a good job that pays well, and I am smart.

But when it comes to some things like my daily habits, I am lower value than most women. Even some lvw. But I'm working on it. I changed my diet this year. I don't work out all the time but I am working it in slowly. I'm starting to dress better gradually and put on lotion and doing skincare. I'm changing my bad habits.

summerspring_ · 2020-03-17T17:24:39+00:00

Theres alot of questionable things about this post....

Hopefully soon you will have a revelation that you dont need a man to exist. I saw your past posts and you seem to "need" mens attention and validation. You don't need a man to say you're beautiful to know this. You must find it from within.

Idk how others will relate to you on here, because you asked for other women who are not hvw. If you are not hvw or working towards it, you shouldn't be dating. This is a suggestion. At the end of the day, you do you. But Why? None of us want you to get hurt.

So How about working on leveling up? Let's take a break from guys.

2020-03-17T17:51:46+00:00

I am a year younger but I think you are simply romanticizing first relationships which is definitely not healthy for you and your self esteem. My first relationship was shitty and the man treated me poorly - he appeared and then reappeared again until I finally said stop it, blocked him and focused on my education and fitness goals. Many of my friends faced gaslighting, cheating and so on. Do you really think they were dating HVM? Nope.

mynamespaghetti · 2020-03-17T17:40:27+00:00

Sis, it's time to level up.

If the men and women you meet are all LV, you need to expand your social circles. Start working on yourself, grow your education (this doesn't mean just school), your career, your hobbies, and focus on becoming more HV yourself.

You'll notice that you'll start meeting more HV people, they will naturally be drawn to other HV people, and those that are LV in your life will start to drop away when they can't keep up.

level_up_always · 2020-03-17T21:09:18+00:00

/r/femalelevelupstrategy

Title	I had a realization
Author	12sushi
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	March 17, 2020 5:04 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/fk8tb0/i_had_a_realization/
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