I've been dating a very HVM since November; we both travel a ton and I had a medical procedure, so we've been on about 6 or 7 dates in this time? He has been incredible in all aspects so far, dropping everything to come see me when I ask, checking in on me, being available on my timeline, well-planned dates, paying for everything - truly no complaints except he's almost toooo bougie/classy for me.

Anyways, this week has been...off. He says that he has been staying late at work every night this week, which I actually do believe because he works in a government position that is in the news a lot lately for some emergency issues (trying to be vague). He is still the one initiating texts every time, but this week I had to ask if we could have a date on Saturday, as opposed to him asking me when I am free so he can take me out.

He's also said that he's open to what I would like to do, but hasn't suggested anything. I can't tell if he's truly busy and distracted at work or checking out of dating. What do you think?