I know this is ridiculous- like really, the bar is on the floor. But how do you really make sure that the guy you’re seeing isn’t gross? Because I have found out that guys don’t brush their teeth or wash their hands consistently or don’t change their underwear every day and I just can’t be around someone that nasty. I can’t follow them into the bathroom and check, you know? If he’s that gross, I want him gone before the first date.