Are HVM on dating apps?

AyemHerself · 2020-01-25T03:23:32+00:00

Sadly there's no one place to find them. If it were that easy LVM would be extinct. It takes patience to weed through undesirables and the comfort of being single in the meantime.

jewdy09 · 2020-01-25T04:31:58+00:00

There are lots of high value women on dating sites. Many FDS ladies use them for many reasons even though we understand it is a shit show. It stands to reason that there will be HVM who also use them for those same reasons. The issue is that all LVM who are looking for women are also using OLD. They make online dating so tiresome that it’s easy to get discouraged and assume it’s all just creeps who use OLD.

The trick is to have a rigid vetting process. Let them approach you, never approach them. Don’t make an effort to revive a fizzled conversation, that is their job. My profiles state what I am looking for and I ask they respond to a specific question in their initial message. If they don’t answer the question, it’s obvious they couldn’t be bother to read my bio and they only looked at my pictures. If their profile is low effort, they are low effort. Pictures are required and they must be posted on their profile. Any excuse for not having them is bullshit. If they don’t ask for a date pretty quickly, I stop responding.

If they start talking about sex, don’t respect that I won’t give them my number or address before I feel comfortable, write like a second grader, try to convince me why something that I want in a relationship is wrong, try any gas lighting bullshit, beg, or do anything else that irks me, I’m out.

A HVM will have a few clear and recent photos, a well-articulated bio though it may be brief, and will approach you with an opening message that opens up a dialogue. He will ask a few questions to ascertain if you are up to his standards and then will ask you if you would like to meet for a date. If you want to talk on the phone with them before meeting, get a Google Voice number.

CuriousCatNYC777 · 2020-01-25T03:35:31+00:00

No they’re not. They don’t like being on the meat market in general. Best to find someone through networking. Improve your friendship circle. Also HVM hates LVM and won’t want to be anywhere LVM are know to congregate (I.e. Tinder).

nosynobody · 2020-01-25T08:02:40+00:00

Well I met my s/o on a dating app. He was there after a ltr and a pretty bad date with someone he knew irl.

I would refrain from calling him an HVM because he's a bit of a commitmentphobe (despite talking about wanting a future together I don't see concrete plans and therefore may have to leave after the 2 year mark)

but congenitally yes, he's well-to-do, has a great job, is amiable, sweet, takes initiative, conventionally attractive and all the works.

So if you are in a more serious dating app and make it clear that you are looking for something serious you may attract men with similar ideology. I would say slightly older men but no-one older than 4 yrs.

2020-01-25T06:41:31+00:00

Just don't even try to date until you're 25 trust me. Invest that time in your education or fitness or friendships.

geishageishageisha · 2020-01-26T05:51:50+00:00

I don’t think so - I’m 20, and I generally think they’re not on dating apps. If anything they’re just single.

Title	Are HVM on dating apps?
Author	Easlinlove
Upvotes	15
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Date	January 25, 2020 1:18 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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