Ladies, don’t let this be you!

Skittleschild02 · 2020-01-22T03:49:34+00:00

I don’t get how people think that adding a third person to their dying relationship is going save anything. You just making it worst.

But then again, he wasn’t shit when they were on the show. She was obviously a trophy wife to him. I’m shocked he went ahead and had kids with her.

ashleecakes · 2020-01-21T08:13:26+00:00

Meghan King Edmonds Questions Her Role in Jim's Cheating

”Right when [Jim] and I got married. I knew that [Jim] had this bad boy kind of past and we were newlyweds and trying to have fun and he wanted to have a threesome," she claimed. "I thought about it, yeah, okay maybe, sure. We decided to have a threesome, a consensual adult decision with a friend of mine. I felt very comfortable with her, it just felt like okay, if I'm gonna do this, this can be with who and I'm comfortable with that.”

”This was a one time thing," she said, alleging that after their initial rendezvous Jim would always act a little off whenever they ran into the other woman. "I jumped to some of my own conclusions," said Meghan, who later added, "I think they probably had sex more than one time.”

”I found out that when he goes to Cabo for a birthday party, while I'm doing things with our son, from my understanding he takes this girl with him. This threesome girl," she claimed. The couple's son Hart was diagnosed with "irreversible brain damage" in 2019.

Meghan said she "confirmed" Jim brought this woman to Mexico after the third went shopping with his credit card and told everyone there "that her boyfriend was taking her to Cabo tomorrow." Edmonds added, ”They are in Cabo right now, this girl who I thought was my friend. Who I cast aside my uncomfortability with a threesome, everything I had in my head about a threesome being weird and gross because I was fun and I wanted to do things for my husband."

GingerJerk · 2020-01-22T13:05:15+00:00

Threesomes suck and are stupid pickme-isha behavior. I know a couple that does threesomes with other women because "it's his fetish and he would hate it if they brought in a man because that doesn't turn him on", he still ended up cheating, right after he got married! In fact he cheated in all his relationships. He also set up his wife and ex gf's to look for other women because he can't be bothered. It's disgusting. She forgave him, but now she's super fat after being into fitness and basically having a perfect body. She dumped a fitness instructor for this POS. Fucks sake.

I knew some people in BDSM and poly-lifestyle, it's a cheat-fest. And it's ALWAYS the men. Never the women. The women enter a relationship thinking that just because she's bringing girls into threesomes and does poly, he won't cheat behind her back. He still does!

And all the men I've talked to about cheating didn't cheat because "they couldn't keep it in their pants"... No! It's always "I cheated because my wife/gf did this or that. Or she ignored me. Or she had some issues in her life and we didn't have sex as often. Or I was jealous of her ex or some shit. Or she hooked up with this guy while we were still casually fucking. Or she gave birth to a fucking BABY and all her attention went there (read: all the housework and chores and parenting)." One cheated because she was busy with her career, working her ass of to pay off the house when he was stuck in a low paying job he was thinking about quitting. It's always an act of aggression and punishment with them. They do it to HURT. It's unforgivable. The woman from the first paragraph got cheated on because she had a family crisis and "wasn't as kinky anymore" lmao.

To pickme-ishas - they don't fuck you because they can't resist you. They use you as a tool to hurt the woman they're in a relationship with. Once she uncovers the deceit, he'll run right back to enjoy the pain he caused. Especially if it's a mother of small children, he can forever revel in the damage he caused because she's bound to have some contact with him because of the kids. He'll be like "look at her suffer, it must really hurt to lose a great guy like me". They don't have the ability to realize it's deceit that hurts. They think losing THEM hurts. He'll ditch your "incredible connection" to go look at his SO bleed. And he'll be even happier with her once he broke her, if she forgives him. Open your eyes. Women who want to keep cheating men around shower them with sex and attention, and it's all because you were dumb enough to be the side-chick. He uses you to get something from another woman, that's how little you mean to him. He'll be like "I must be so amazing to get rewarded with this much attention after doing something extremely hurtful". It's a pure ego flex.

I've told my SO that if he ever cheated on me, I would go ahead and fuck someone else as retaliation. Quite possibly one of his friends. He never dared to give me a reason to even doubt him so far. If he gets a message from some thirsty chick, he shows me immediately like a good boy and blocks. We talked about threesomes because we discussed that guy in the first paragraph and he said he would be JEALOUS if I brought another person into bed, be it a woman or a man. And THAT'S the normal response, especially if you're a bi woman. Because he realizes your sexuality is not a fetish and if you brought a girl into your bed, SHE could steal you away from him. A guy who know you're not really bi and are just trying to be "the cool gf" will have no problem with you bringing women into bed because he's not threatened and he knows you're doing this to please him. And if it's one of your friends, he'll have ease of contacting her once he decides he wants her one-on-one. Don't be naive.

In my first ever relationship, I got cheated on. And he dared to do it to me while he damn well knew my dad was cheating on my mom back then. My fault was I was apparently depressed about it and didn't want to party with his stupid friends. I will never forget my exes face when he saw me out partying a couple of Saturdays later with a cute boy. I had common sense back then to do the exact opposite of sulking about it. I took the break-up as incentive to go after another boy I liked. It was like someone punched him in the stomach. 2 can play this game. They think you're gonna cry and suffer after they hurt you. They don't expect you to pick yourself right up and entertain yourself with someone else. Because they're stupid enough to think you're gonna fight for him. If you bring in a girl, and he cheats on you and you end up crying - he has you right where he wants you and he planned to have you there from the very beginning. This woman in the article would benefit from paying both of them "dust".

Title	Ladies, don’t let this be you!
Author	ashleecakes
Upvotes	19
Comments	13
Date	January 21, 2020 8:10 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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