Plate is very shy when sober. At parties she hardly talks to people, when together she opens up and talks to me a good deal. She goes into total freeze mode in bed.

She's had sex with only 2 previous guys (supposedly, AWALT in mind).

I do sort of believe her because she doesnt know how to give head at all and is very insecure about it. Doesnt know how to kiss like at all... also insecure about it. Never used toys and gets insecure nervous trying them the first time because they scare her almost.

Thing is, I like how quiet she is... it fits my lifestyle and what I like. So I'm willing to put in the time to train her and need advice on how to guide her.

She drives an hour to see me multiple times a week, never denies sex, if she does something I dont like, I tell her and she always corrects herself. So she's meeting several criteria of mine.

She is almost scared to show expression in the bedroom though. She enjoys it a lot. If I'm going down on her and it gets to where she cant keep composure, she gets very embarrassed about making a noise she couldn't hold back or her body starting to buck out of control. She immediately gets serious and tells me to stop.

I've worked on really laying it on thick with praise when she makes noises... telling her how sexy it is and stuff. I have also considered tying her hands up. That is if she would even entertain that idea, since she's only opened up to using a vibrator once and dildo once. I was eating her out and using the dildo and she started really losing control and made me stop because she was embarrassed.

Anyways I've read sex God method and it doesnt talk specifically about this situation. Any ideas?