A lot of FDS seems to revolve around what to do once the courting process has started but what about everything that precedes that? I just turned 21 and I haven't dated in 3 years because men do not ask me out. But even if they did, I barely ever see men I am attracted to (or feel like I could connect with) anyway. Besides the fact that I feel a little lonely these days, another negative consequence is that I do not have "abundance mentality" AT ALL when it comes to men (especially since I am looking for one who also doesn't want children). How will I be able to act like the prize when on a date with the kind of man I had been waiting to meet for years? How will be able to keep my cool and not feel desperate to be with him when I know I might not even be guaranteed to meet another man like that again? So I am really stuck here. HELP.