Is it weird if every guy that’s messaged me on okcupid ghosted me ?

SpookySparkle7 · 2020-01-11T04:06:46+00:00

No when I was active on the app I'd always get ghosted after messaging for a while. I only went on 1 date from OkCupid and it was with a guy who lied about his height. Ugh. He said he was 5'9" but he was more like 5'5" which sucks cause I'm 5'8" and I wore heels so I felt like a giant.

I think they're messaging a lot of different women simultaneously and go with the one who seems to be acting the most "interested" (easy and desperate) and go with that one.

If you're following FDS and not desperate for his attention and bringing up sex or trying to act all cute and flirty he knows he'll have to put too much work in to get laid and guys on OD aren't trying to do all that for the most part.

They're looking for the girls that are trying to impress THEM instead of the other way around.

sweatydeath · 2020-01-11T00:00:31+00:00

It sounds like they got caught. In all seriousness, I used multiple dating apps and would schedule multiple dates during the same week to counteract this. This does tend to happen.

geishageishageisha · 2020-01-11T01:52:30+00:00

Id generally advise, if you’re under 30 don’t bother with apps. You’re way more likely to meet someone sane through mutual friends or just in person.

Title	Is it weird if every guy that’s messaged me on okcupid ghosted me ?
Author	_untitled_nonsense
Upvotes	17
Comments	14
Date	January 10, 2020 11:40 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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