Because that used to be me until I discovered FDS. I never had any trouble attracting high value men but I would always let myself be used and walked over because I didn't realize my own value and self worth. I was #notlikeothergirls and surrounded myself with LVM "friends" who were only interested in having a chance to sleep with me. I was a "cool girl" who would constantly go out of my way to act sexy and sexual around every guy in my life, even ones I wasn't interested in because I was desperate for their attention and validation (This is what sex work does to the brain. Don't do it girls!).

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Even legit full on Pickmeishas were probably cringing at how over the top I was. I know I still cringe at it constantly today. The irony was that during this entire time I was a full on radical feminist who outright *hated* men even more so then I do now, but I would always fail to realize how my behavior was enabling them.

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I finally learned my lesson but it took great effort and sacrifice. I ditched my entire toxic social circle and all the parasitic male enablers that I surrounded myself with. I'm now alone by myself on Christmas.

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But goddamnit it's worth it! The last several months of my life have been some of the best that I can remember and I've finally learned how to train men to treat me how I deserve to be treated and am finally pursuing dating and relationships on my own terms. As this year comes to an end, I will look back on it with pride and look forward to the next one.