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[–]AstridRavenGraeFDS Disciple42 points43 points44 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
My new No. 1 in the dating rotation is a man who asked me out and then set the time and the place in a ten minute time span. When the original plans fell through (overbooked) he had the new venue organised without an hour after calling several restaurants to secure a table.
During the date he wasn’t wishy washy about his intentions either - he wants only a serious relationship and then immediately requested a second date for this coming Thursday which I accepted this morning. He has also asked permission to take me out to an expensive date full of activities for my birthday coming up in the New Year, a request I’ll respond to after seeing how the second date this week.
This person is breath of fucking air in a sea of manbabies. Cut off the low-effort ones, make room for the real men to show up. He’ll either come towards you with his full energy and drive at the start, or never at all.
[–]CuriousCatNYC777Ruthless Strategist[S] 8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s wonderful! Looks like he knows what he has and doesn’t want to lose it!
[–]crazyangrygirlFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Happy for you.
[–]AstridRavenGraeFDS Disciple6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you :) will see how it goes. In the meantime had another date today and another one tomorrow 🤞🏻
[–]Ms_TillyRuthless Strategist36 points37 points38 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Stop wondering what the hot/cold and push/pull actions of a man mean. They mean you need to walk away from those men and preferably BLOCK. #dumphim2020
[–]smiles-and-knivesFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Absolutely!
[–]noavocadoshereFDS Newbie25 points26 points27 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
last person i decided to be with was the last time i'll experience this. putting your all into talking to someone while feeling something's changed (without any input on their end), and overanalyzing instead of living my life? nah, no more of that🤚
[–]smiles-and-knivesFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
How do you stop wanting men who don’t want you?
[–]CuriousCatNYC777Ruthless Strategist[S] 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You have to have clear standards that you stick by. Him not wanting you should be an automatic turn-off.
Read: https://reddit.app.link/mrTAIvQJp2
[–]smiles-and-knivesFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It should be a turn off, but it isn’t. How do you change that?
[–]CuriousCatNYC777Ruthless Strategist[S] 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It starts with loving yourself and having confidence. When you’re confident, you will be naturally offended when someone doesn’t treat you well. I suggest watching this video from my previous post:
https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/e8h5r9/some_top_notch_advice_about_building_and_keeping/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app
[–]take1990FDS Apprentice1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wanted to hear this. Ex was always unsure if he wanted to be with me, saying he’s ‘not ready’.
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