Okay, stay with me. I know that most of the women on this subreddit are straight. But for the WLW in the building, what makes a high value woman?

I recently came to the painful conclusion that I was being played by a (lesbian) woman I had confessed my feelings to. She - despite saying we should take it slow because we’re friends - decided to hit the bar every night, fucking everything that moves, invalidating my feelings. Despite being a beautiful woman with a great job she’s proven herself not worth my time. What qualities should I be looking for as a wlw to elevate myself and find the best partner for me?

edited for typos because I’m a mess