“Inaction is an action.”

When you don’t ask for that date; you are lazy and hope we’re easy. When you don’t take her on a proper date; you are cheap and hope she’ll still sleep with you. When you don’t pay for the first date or try to split it; you show your not even worth her company and you aren’t worth the effort because you’re already trying to split. When you don’t (at least try to) open a door for your lady; you show you don’t respect her in a simple gentlemanly capacity. (There are more than one kind of door). When you don’t use your manners in her presence; you show you never will.

All of these inactions make it clear you don’t have intentions to show you are worthy of being a part of a woman’s life and actively being a role model in society and an exemplary partner.

Ladies. No answer is an answer. Don’t waste your time on men who are not honest or straight with you. If you have to question his motives, stop questioning them entirely.

You are a prize; your brain and your body are on a pedestal and no man gets a participation award (notice how most people think they’re kinda cheap medals? Don’t treat yourself like that)

Take the high road, treat yourself like you’re a prize. Look at men like science fair projects. The best project wins the prize. You can’t win a prize without meeting the competition requirements!

Men; raise your own standards. Act like your life is a science project and do your research and actually create a worthy project worth investing in. BE someone worth investing in.

Don’t read ‘standards on women’ but your OWN standards. Be better.