Anyone else see red flags? Am I crazy? This seems highly inappropriate, especially if mom is bothered.

royaldetour · 2020-06-15T01:38:22+00:00

It's very weird and probably fake. Deep conversations while she's naked in the bath? She can wash her vulva but needs him to wash her breasts? I'm shocked at how many people are validating this and I bet this whole post is an attempt to nudge incest toward being more socially acceptable. Thank goodness for this sub and the sane women here.

TheOGJammies · 2020-06-15T01:53:42+00:00

This sounds like a pervert fantasy

passionatevirtuoso · 2020-06-15T01:31:32+00:00

Daughter requested her dad. Clearly the daughter wasn't comfortable with the mom doing it... It would be more red flag if he forced the daughter to endure her mom washing her.

To be fair, I also find it super weird and unlikely.

Skittleschild02 · 2020-06-15T02:01:00+00:00

This screams, “Dear Penthouse,” There’s been some doozies but this one screams fake to me.

djfrankenjuice · 2020-06-15T02:12:43+00:00

Short of the daughter being very crippled by an injury, I can’t imagine this is a real story.

For reference I fractured my skull severely and spent a significant time in a hospital (concerns about becoming paralyzed from the neck down) and then another month pretty much in bed (they had me walk around the hospital before I left, I could get up to go to the bathroom and such). My first week out of the hospital, my mom left town. She had been planning on visiting her mother before her mother underwent another cancer related surgery - I had told her to go as we knew I was improving and my dad could be around for me. My dad worked in the neighborhood we lived in. When I did shower, we set me up with a seat, dad would stay around outside the bathroom door to make sure I was ok. Never once saw me naked. I can’t say I have a lot of specific memories about it because a) traumatic head injury and b) you don’t shower that frequently while recovering from an injury like that (quarantine should demonstrate how dramatically bathing habits drop off in isolation).

Not once did anyone suggest that my father should help wash me (I was 17). If it was that bad, it would have been sponge baths in bed with my dad very awkwardly asking me if I could get myself in places. And those too would be ridiculously infrequent. (One day, I decided I could go to the kitchen to get cereal instead of waiting for him to get home for lunch; that way I could eat something and take the painkillers and go back to sleep. I got dizzy and fell in the hallway about 3 steps out of my bedroom. That’s the sort of shape I was in.)

Final thought: this guy is telling a pervy story that doesn’t depict anyone even vaguely suggesting he’s an asshole. Other than spreading this fantasy, what was the point of the post?

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Title	Anyone else see red flags? Am I crazy? This seems highly inappropriate, especially if mom is bothered.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	June 15, 2020 1:13 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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