I commented this under a post, I think this is worth a discussion itself:

This is the absolute truth and should be applied to ALL areas of life. Legitimately!!

I could never figure out why I was getting more attention than say the women in my life who'd resent me for it. Friendship gone. I have always known it was never about the appearance. They think it is. I've observed it for such a long time now.

The secret is: A hot, desirable woman decides she is a hot, desirable woman!! You explore yourself first and foremost. You know yourself. You radiate that so clearly because there is no other way for you. Everybody starts staring. You don't ask, you demand with your aura. You don't talk, you just know with you aura.

The quality of people in your life increases. You're constantly surrounded by the same mentality. You spiral upwards. It will no longer be am I?, but I am.

And the people in your life don't undermine you. You have no constant toll taken on your self-esteem. You just are. Take me or leave me. When you leave, I know what to do. I look inward and find new worlds within myself. Never the outside world! It will blow up on you!

Nobody can do that for you. It's also not explainable to the women in your life. Either they know or they don't. It's literally enlightening truth. We choose not to see it!!! And worse we're not aware of that decision!! Mind games, societal roles, patriarchy, fake female competition, shame (!!), media, news, marketing, branding.. you count it!!!

Men count on you not knowing! All the predatory behavior just stems out of finding the weak. And we're conditioned to be weak. It's a vicious cycle. Only way out is with enlightenment.

Pussy is power but so is knowledge