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[–]jeanneeebeanneeeFDS Apprentice52 points53 points54 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A LVM will play mind games with you to keep you interested while he explores his options. Never, ever waste your precious time and energy trying to guess what a man is thinking.
[–]CuriousCatNYC777Ruthless Strategist48 points49 points50 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
This is true. BUT remember, often times it’s not just you.
They’re confused about themselves, their lives, and their jobs too.
Most times if they’re low effort and confused with you, that’s probably their approach to life in general!
[–]BovvsetteFDS Disciple13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah, a lot of the times they are unsure about their own choices and don't want to commit in other parts of their lives too. Best to stay away until they get a grip on themselves and are confident in their choices. There is a difference between being actively sought after, and being settled for just because you're the one who happens to be available at a convenient time and place.
[–]CuriousCatNYC777Ruthless Strategist5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s right! You’re just a convenience if he’s high effort with everything and everyone else in his life, but not with you.
[–]ghygdryhchmmmmjjFDS Newbie66 points67 points68 points 4 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
Yes. If you want to test the theory about a guy who is "confusing you". I suggest asking them to commit. Point blank. Dont put words in their mouth just ask without leaving them any avenues to hedge the question. They say no. Boom. You're no longer on the hook. I was frustrated bring ok the hook with two guys I liked. Asked them both out even though I knew they "didn't like me that way" but my brain kept holding out hope. So I crushed the hope. A little embarrassing for me. I cried a bit. But completely off the hook. I'm not suggesting you ask out a guy who hasn't made moves to lock you down... but I think girls stay on the hook rather than rip the band off. You can tell when some one wants to prioritize you versus when they are only available when its convenient for them.
[–]VegitarianPineappleFDS Newbie26 points27 points28 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I am the most oblivious person on the world, and I was still 100% sure my current boyfriend liked me within 24 hours.
[–]LadyHormoneMonsterFDS Disciple44 points45 points46 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s seriously this simple! If you have to wonder, he isn’t worth it. I tried to (lightly) explain this to a new acquaintance, and she wasn’t having it. “Well...actuallyyyyyy it’s more complicated than that....” (Not today Pickmeisha 😈🤪)
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