If dumping is on the cards, dump him before V-day, not after. Don’t wait to be disappointed. We do not need men for cards and flowers. If you’re only in it for that, he’s probably only in it for the sex. If there’s someone you’re unsure of, make the move now and get rid - you already know how it’s going to end. Don’t exploit LVM vulnerabilities, you’re better than that and it adds nothing to your life except a bad reputation.

Look, we don’t use men for trinkets, OK? If you don’t like him, don’t postpone the dumping just to get some hollow Valentine’s attention.

You don’t need it, and it’s a major power move to ditch him now, if ditching him is on the cards. Obviously don’t ditch any truly good ones - we’re not belligerent mercenaries.

This time of year is when they think we’re vulnerable.

Do not fall prey.